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my guy friend*
Ok I have this really awesome guy friend "John", well over the summer I was pretty much suicidal and he was the only one who knew about it and he talked me out of doing some pretty shitty stuff. Anyways,he got me going to his church and everything was going great for me. He would talk to me all the time, we would talk about anything and everything, it didn't matter what it was, most of the time it didnt. Well I liked him, I told him I kind of liked him, I wasnt going to tell him but I got pressured into it. And he said he didnt like me that way and that we were still friends. Lately, he won't talk to me. This morning at church, he didn't say one fucking word to me. Whenever he signs in on the computer, he wont talk to me, and if we do talk its for like 1 minute. Tell me, please, what should I do about this. I just want one of my best friends back.
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Well i kind of tell people flat out when something is bothering me so maybe you should jus go up to him and be like i just want to be frineds forget about being more becuase i just ant you as my freind back, maybe hes still scared that you might want him more and is trying to get you not to like him like that, if i was just you i would go up and ask what's going on, othewise you are going to be left wondering
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he probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings because he doesn't like you in that sort of way, dont worry about it, once you like someone else he'll be back to you friends way.. thats what i think, because some guy said he liked me and i didn't like him and i just completely stopped talking to him, and when he got a gf we were best friends again! so i dont think its a big deal, dont worry too much about it, but dont do anything stupid okay? trust me, dont do it, you guys will be friends again, and keep going to church, its good for you, hope things will get better for you, x0 Renee
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heyy. umm well i think maybe you should go up to him and tell him that you dont want what you said to effect your relationship with him. tell him that he was like your bestfriend. he probably just feels uncomfortable and/or nervous. talk to him and give him some time, if he really liked being friends with you, he will get over it. just dont pressure him to be friends with you and dont be mad at him for not liking you the same way. he'll come around soOn enough. gOod luck! hOpe i helped! = ) (plz rate me!)
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