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hey again.. he hasnt talked to me since monday night so lastnight i sent him a text message off my cell phone and i told him this exactly.."this is going to be hard to do since i still have feelings for you but i am giving up on you so when school starts back i will be moving my stuff out of your locker so i wont be bothering you and it will save me the pain..i hope we can still talk"...i regret sending that now because he never responded and im afraid that we will be over for good now..or he'll find someone else before christmas break is over..do you think he will?
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hey. well, maybe that text message was good afterall... you let him know that you still like him but the its too hard to do things this way. there are several reasons why he might not have talked to you yet (some better than others), here they are... 1, he might have found someone else (which would surprise me because it would be really fast) 2, he needs some space (let him have it if so), 3, he simply doesnt know how to handle it and what to say. i was reading an article in a magazine the other day and it described how a girl "win him back", so here is the advice: to speak up (which you already have done with the text message) to let him know that if he needs you or wants to get back together with you, you're still there for him (but dont be too easy), then if he needs his space, to back off, and try to limit your conversations with him to a simple "hi" or maybe more depending on the situation. then keep yourself busy to try not to think about him too much. also, by staying busy, you show that you are independent, which is really good. dont forget to have fun, even if its really hard. you have to show him that even though you arent with him anymore, you are still fun to be around. be happy, even if you have to pretend in teh beginning. stay true to yourself, if you really want him back, then dont try to make him jealous with another guy. if you dont want him back, dont act like you want him. so do that, and see how he acts, it might take a little while though. however, if he says that he doesnt like you, he probably means it. also, after about 3 months of you guys not being together, it might mean that it is really the end; you guys will grow in different ways and it would be hard to pick up where you left off. however, if you have decided that he isnt worth your time, which i dont think you have, otherwise you wouldnt be writing to me, then just act as if nothing really happened and that you arent very hurt. i forgot to tell you, you might want to text him another message to let him know that you still care and will be there for him, because if you want him back, i think that the fact that you said "i'm giving up on you" might scare him away a little... so just let him know that you're there for him. you have to let him choose what he wants, you can change his mind, but not his heart. so just give him some space, i know its hard, but if its ment to be, then he will realize that you are the best thing that ever happened to him. i hope this helped a bit more, and sorry for not writing sooner. if you want to talk more about it, heres my aim sn: msbighair007 otherwise, good luck and dont lose hope! peace and love.
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