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ookay , im really scared to have sex cause it will hurt and i dont want it to hurt .. like i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years . but i am sooo ready for it . we both want it . but i herd it hurts so much . i mean he cant even finger me without it hurting , =/ .. i get to the point where i cry it hurts so bad .. what do i do becuase we both want to . =/ but i mean im only 15 and yeah . i mean we both want to and understand the risks . but we love each other
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Whether you have sex now or five years from now, it's still going to hurt. It depends on how many other sexual things you have done before and how quickly you have sex. This is my first sex question soo yeah this is weird for me to answer but anyway. It will hurt but if you're wet enough it won't hurt as bad and if you've been stretched out it won't hurt as bad. You most likely won't achieve orgasm either and the first few times you do have sex it's still going to hurt. If you both feel you're ready and feel like you definitely won't regret it then make the decision together. Fingering and sex are different because when you use a condom it has lubrication on it and fingers don't (unless you've been putting that on) and it'll slide in easier. Fingers feel totally different than sex and like I said it's going to hurt but there's nothing really to do to prevent it. Everyone's nervous their first time.
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