well theres this guy whos one of my really good friends and well call him jake. well last year me and jake were really close and had like every class together and he was like my best friend. and towards the end of the year i kinda got this feeling that he liked me but i wasnt sure.. so the summer goes by and this year rolls around and we rarely see each other.. and he drops hints that he likes me and i kinda acknowledged it but didnt think anything of it.. then i had people coming up to me and being like did you know jake likes you a LOT? hes like in love with you and id be like nawww its just a crush.. then one day he wrote me a love letter confessing his love to me and i paniced. i didnt know what to do. i couldnt ever be b/f - g/f with him cause there are too many things about him that irritate me. and so i told him that i was sorry and i loved him but only as a friend. well it made him really mad and he started going suicidal and saying he hated me for what i had done. he sunk into depression and i was so messed up and didnt know how to help him - i was scared for him. and now ive found out that hes started cutting himself and ive tried talking to him but he just doesnt listen. im really worried about him and im afraid for him. what can i do to try to talk to him and let him know that i still care?
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