Question Posted Wednesday December 8 2004, 6:42 pm
Hey Jax...
There's this guy I've gone out with like a jillion times and he says he still likes me and wants to go out, but he doesn't wanna tell people. I'm sure you know who I am now, but anyway, what am I supposed to do? He's like so pissing me off, because I told him that I don't do the whole secret deal and I know his friends don't like me and I don't want him to have to take shit from them or anything, plus I hardly date as it is but I don't want to go out with him and then break up for some dumb reason. So what should I do, and how can I tell if he really likes me or just wants a piece of ass?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? adviceforyou17 answered Wednesday December 8 2004, 10:00 pm: Ok well first of all is he wants yo keep you a "secret" well thats shit n u shoiuld not take that .. You deserve a person that wants to show you off to the world and is not embarresed for some god knows what reason. I would personally never EVER go out with a guy that wants to hide it because that is no relationship and its like starting a relationship on a lie .. which can not be good.. now i am not here to tell you wheather to go out with him or not ..but i would say that he does really like you just by wanteing to go out with you because if he didn't really like you and it was a joke then why would he care if it was hidden or not .. because everyone would know it was a joke .. ? Next if you do deside to go out with him ( strongly not reccomended) then you just need to be yourself thats the best advice have becasue seriously if you are yourself and he wants to break with you than atleast he broke up with you for who you are and is not staying with you for who your not.. that is a way not to break up for dumb reasons .. And maybe let somethings slide everyonce and a while i know it is hard but remember no one is perfect .. everibe has flaws .. and i don't he think he thinks your a piece of ass beacuase why choose you there has to be some kind of reason because why wouldn't he pick 1 out of the other 150 or wutever girls in school? however you shouldn't make him hide you because thats just not right and it does mean that he is embarresed about something for some reason maybe it is because his friends dont like you but that is no reason to hide you he should be proud .. HOpe i helped !!! [ adviceforyou17's advice column | Ask adviceforyou17 A Question ]
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