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Boys.... can't live with em, can't live w/out em..
Ok, so, there's this boy right (gosh, that phrase is starting to get a little cliche), anyway, I've known him since 6th grade when he started crushing on me. I never really had feelings for him, but I loved talking to him! He was really funny, and I felt like I could tell him anything! I know he liked me, and he knew i knew, half the time we were fighting, but when we weren't we'd talk for hours. Now to explain the past tense and to make it a long story short, he doesn't talk to me anymore. We got in a fight over something, and it just got worse from there. I'm in 9th grade now, so we've known each other for 3 years, and I know so much about him that I wish he would talk to me. I don't know what do to because I've explained how I feel and he just doesn't even want to hear it. What should I do?
Thanks.
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boys, can't live with em, can't live without em.. so what if its cliche? its the gosh darn truth aint it? it sounds to me like this guy has been crushing on you real bad, for a very extended period of time.. 3 years?? he must really like you. you said that you knew he liked you, and he knew you knew, but even though both of you knew, did you talk about it? because not talking about it can start brewing troubled waters deep under the surface, and get worse and worse until it finally spills out, which must have been your major fight. and now you two dont talk anymore. you mentioned that you loved him as a friend because he was basically an awesome person and a great friend to you. so why were you two always bickering? it seems to me that with a great guy like him there would never be any fighting. but was it maybe a communication issue? maybe you need a better approach at telling him your feelings for him. and if you have already done all you can, then its his problem. if he wants to lose a great friendship, then its his loss. because he needs to get over the fact that you are simply his friend. and you cant be upset about it. your not responisble for his feelings. whatever you do, dont feel guilty about not returning his affection. maybe you should try talking to him again, and tell him whats in your heart and that you really want to be his friend. if he doesnt get it, then even his friendship isnt worth your precious time. you said you could tell him anything, so go ahead. tell him anything. heck, go tell him EVERYTHING. hope it all works out.. good luck
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