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ok so there's this guy i've known for a long time..we know each other in and out and recently i found out he had feelings for me..and i have always had some feelings for him since i met him but since im older now theyre alot stronger. so once i was brave enough to ask him about it, it worked in my favor with me finding out that he actually liked me back which every girl loves to hear! but the problem is..he has a gf and has had a gf since this summer but the way he talks to me isnt at all as if he had one..but im not the kinda girl to help a guy "cheat" even tho he wouldnt but he actually is in a way cheating on his gf even tho i dont see him but i just need help on what to do..like should i keep liking him and wait however long it takes for him and his gf to dissolve or should i let go and move on even tho there's something there? but you see i think they just had an issue in their relationship but then when theyre all into each other i cant do anything but sit back and watch and just watch my heart break
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hmmmmm..thats hard.
Well...first off are him and his gf like having problems? if so then sooner or later thier gonna "dissolve"...and that will be one of your best days b/c if you talk to him, he'll open up to you and then is a perfect time for you to hit him with the whole "i've got feelings for you" thing.
if his gf and him are not having troubles...then i guess you need to just try and get over him (as hard as that is...) and RESPECT THAT HE IS HAPPY.
Just give it all time, don't rush into things and DO NOT try to get them apart b/c even if you work out a flawless plan...the secrets will come out!
and about "even tho he wouldnt but he actually is in a way cheating on his gf even tho i dont see him" i would just kinda not encourage those types of things and if he doesn't stop after a period of time..then you need to just tell his gf about it...she wont hate you, i swear, but something needs to be done about that.
i hope this advice is good for you. :)
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