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hey mandie....reading some of ur other advice i see ur pretty good @ it. ok heres my problem...i have trouble trusting my b/f. i love him so incredibley much and would die for this boy but i cant trust him. the irony to this is we have broken up multipal times b/c i cheated on him. im not sure if its b/ im scared he will do the same thing to me as i did him but iuno...plz help me figure out how to trust him....thank u..much love...
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okay..first off, cheating is just wrong. i know some people are thinking "oh, how would mandie know? she broke allan's heart!" but the thing is..it hurts the guy WORSE than if you were to just brake up with him.
now this trust issue thing, i struggle on that too with certain people. but my advice for that is to NOT date him (for now!) and take a step back, and be friends..NOT friends with benefits b/c that doesn't introduce to anything new...but if you stay friends for like 2 or 3 weeks, you see how he works and what kinda guy he really is. THEN, start taking it a few steps at a time and try and re-develop feelings and just put faith in him that he wont hurt you.
i'm not sure is he has ever cheated on you..but if he hasn't then what makes you think he would start?
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