dear tara, i hooked up with a guy and now he doesnt talk to me at all.i mean we never talk but its kind of ackward when i see him in the halls..what should i do??? PLEASE HELP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx answered Sunday November 28 2004, 8:10 pm: I don't know exactly what to tell you, because I have been in the same situation myself before, and it was never resolved. But its worth a shot, so here is my advice to you: You hooked up with him, and he hooked up with you. The feeling there was obviously mutual, correct? Correct. But here is where things get tricky and unmututal, if you know what I mean. Do you like this guy? Would you ever consider dating him or going out with him? And what are his feelings towards you? If you know that he is into you for sure, and you're into him, then go talk to him! Ask him why he has been distant lately. Maybe you are both just feeling awkward and after the hook up didn't know what to do. If that's the case, then you two need to talk it out. But if he is just a jerk who used you to hook up, then he is SO not worth your time. FORGET HIM. There are plenty of other good fishies in the sea, and it's been lovely weather for fishing lately! Good luck! [ XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx's advice column | Ask XoLiLmsYaNkeeOx A Question ]
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