hi..I'm 14/female. The other day my friend asked me out and i had went out with him before like 2 weeks before and then broke up with him,i broke up with him because i valued our friendship and still wanted to be friends...well he had a party over the weekend and invited me and tons of people were going to be there. Well i got there and no parents were there. Well i was flirting with some guys and the guy who asked me out was like flirting big time with me...of course its a girls nature to flirt back..so of course i was. and we went in his room and started like making-out and stuff. Then while we were making-out and stuff he asked me out again and i said yes. and hes like now that we're goin out wanna do something more than makeout..and i said im not ready for that and he said ok. and i asked if he was mad and he said no but it seemed it. after he asked me and i said no and all that. then we were like still making-out and stuff..but then he started to like kiss my neck and stuff... i was scared of what was going to happen next so i just told him to stop and i left. Was I doing the right thing?
Pshhh! Yea, You were SO doing the right thing!!! No is no. Don't worry if he is not happy with you. Your virginity is wayy more important to losing a bf that you won't even probably stay with. I can't really tell you when it is the right time to go further because my belief's are just like Jessica Simpson's (saving my self for marriage) So when ever you are ready, just make sure its something you won't regret. and DON'T let him force you into it... :)
xo0x adriana
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