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Should I give him another chance??
Ok, I liked this guy since last year, when I was a freshman, and he was a sophomore. I could hardly talk to him, because I liked him sooo much, but we did talk a lot. We told eachother a lot of stuff that we had never told anyone else, and he completely lead me to believe that he liked me to, right up to inviting me to his house about 4 times, and basically telling me to ask him out. Well, I started to like him at the end of the summer before freshman year, and this summer, the summer before sophomore year, we got into this big, huge fight, which was over the fact that he thought this girl, who he had no chance with , didnt like him because of me, and one night, I just told him that it was his own fault she didn't like him, and that just set him off. So we were in a fight, I said I didn't like him anymore, but I knew I did, and we didn't talk for about 2 months. Then one night, still during summer, I had gotten home from one of my bro's baseball games, and I got online, and was chatting, and the guy was online, and then after about an hour, he IMed me. And he just talked like nothing happened. I was kinda mad, because he didn't apologize or anything, but I have been talking to him again and we just never bring up that summer. Well, he's starting it again. The other night he asked me to go to a party w/ him, then my parents were gone for the weekend, and I was talkin to him on the phone, and I said it was my first time being home alone for a weekend, and he's all, "Want me to come stay w/ you?" Then at one of our away football games last night, I had my back turned to him, and one of my friends was facing him, and she doesnt know I like him, she doesnt even know who it is, but she's like, "Hey, that guy behind you in the blue jacket won't stop staring at you", and it was the guy. So what do I do now, do I start taking him up on some of his offers, and risk letting him hurt me again, or do I shut him out, even though I like him, and risk losing him for good??
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ok that choice is really up to you. do you think he deserves one more chance? if you believe in him and know he would never hurt you again.. then go for it. keep talking to him. if you dont wanna risk getting hurt again.. then i suggest you just forget about him. yeah you like him, but wats the point in holding on to this guy wen yal havent been more than friends and hes hurt you. you think about it.
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