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who's the jerk?
One of my guy friends at a different school told me that his friend really wanted to meet me and take me out on a date after a football game. So we emailed all week long & talked a little bit on the phone. He seemed excited to meet me. So on Friday, we met at his school's football game. For the first minute, everything was going great. I was cuddling under a blanket with him. He was acting really nice. Then all of a sudden, a bunch of girls came up to him and started flirting with Nathan (that's his name). He flirted back and he didn't pay as much attention to me. Other girls tried to steal the blanket from me, but Nathan didn't let them. That was nice of him, but he still continued to flirt with them. When he said he was going to get something to eat, some girls screamed, "I'll go with you!" Then the girls followed him. A little later, I decided to go see what he was up to. Not only were the same girls flirting with him, but others were, too. Nathan payed some attention to me, but not very much. I waited for several minutes for him to shut up to the girls, but he didn't. So what did I do? I left the game COMPLETELY, without saying a word to him or anybody. After I left, I felt bad, so I called Nathan. I told him I would be back at the game. When I went back to the football game, it was almost over. I called Nathan again to tell him I was at the game, but this time a girl answered and said, "He's somewhere else." I looked all over for him, and asked other people if they saw him, but they didn't. So much for the date he was going to take me on after the game. I waited for Nathan to call me, but he never did. This morning, I sent Nathan an email, telling him why I left the game, but I haven't heard from him. Who's the jerk, me or him? What should I do now?
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heeey! ...ok wellll I personally think that He's the jerk...He said he wanted to take u out or whatever, he should have been with YOU not every other girl...and he DEFINETLY shouldn't have been FLIRTING with them! I would have done the same thing that you did...Left the football game. If he's mad at you over that...then thats pretty low of him, because he's the one that caused you to do that. Maybe he's not ready to date and give his attention to just one girl yet?? idk because i dont know him. but if I were you i would TRY talking to him and if he doesn't want to...then let him be like that. If hes not man enough to talk about then hes not man enough for you...lol! goodluck :( :)
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