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Fucked up


Question Posted Thursday September 23 2004, 9:22 pm

i am 19 and a sophmore in college. i am pure and i plan on staying that way until i get married. i have been with the same boy for about a year and 3 months now, we do stuff.. just everything but sex. the other day he really hurt my feelings though. he called and said he couldnt come to my dorm because he wanted to go to the pool hall with his friends. i accepted it, but the night before he told me he was gtoing to come over. so i say " babe why dont you want to all of a sudden come over? " and he replies " i love you and everything but we dont do anything at your dorm, it gets boring, but if we were fucking it would be a different story." i dont know what to do you have no idea. i mean i first of all hate when people refer to it as 'fucking' i think that is so disgriminating and vulgur. i sounds like bad, when making love is suppose to be like magical. i dont know what to do. please help


love always
cOnfuSed


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AshLeY p answered Thursday September 23 2004, 9:26 pm:
Wow Girl!! You got yourself into something there. Ok first of all, it is the change of season and boys are all getting a little moody, but that IS fucked up. Well, we all know how boys are, and it was probably just a spurr of the moment type deal. I'm sure that he loves you very much ( after being with you for over a year and still not leaving you because of the sex thing ), and he probably regrets ever saying that. I really respect you for saving yourself, here I am only 15 and I can't even control myself. Pathetic, I know. But talk to him about it and see if he really meant what he said. Get Back To Me With An Uppppdate :)

Sincerly
~AshLeY p~

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