Question Posted Thursday September 23 2004, 7:43 pm
Okay, Im 14 and my boyfriend and i have been on and off for about a year and i really think im in love with him. A year isnt that long but weve been through A LOT. But we are two TOTALLY different people. We dont agree on anything except the way we feel for each other. So us not being alike at all causes us to argue all the time. We argue more than we are nice to each other. But we only argue when were not with each other. When were together everything is perfectly fine. Hes the best bf ive ever had and he wont believe me everytime i try to tell him that. He just puts himself down and thinks i deserve better but all i want is him and i tell him that all the time. He thinks we need time apart to make things better but i dont. (see we disagree again) and i love him with all my heart and i know he loves me too. Just the disagreements get in the way and i really dont know how to solve that. I'll do anything i have to to make this work. I really love him.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Tori_Dori answered Thursday September 23 2004, 7:50 pm: Wow...well, it's kind of a problem to not have a lot in common. But that doesn't mean a relationship can't work. Ya'll can make it work.Just keep telling him that you really like him. Try not to argue with him too. If ya'll start to argue, think about how stupid it is. If it's a good enough reason to argue over then okay, talk to him about it, just don't fight over it. All you have to do is think before you speak. I know it's easier said than done, but it can happen if you really try to think before you speak.Good Luck, 'n Hope I helped! [ Tori_Dori's advice column | Ask Tori_Dori A Question ]
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