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Ok, me (I'm 15) and this guy (he's 18) were really good friends. More like best friends. Then my best friend (she's 15) started to like him. The guy asked me if I liked him and I denied it b/c the fear of rejection. Well my 2 best friends started dating, and I then began to realize how much I cared for him. He would call me all the time b/c he felt more confortable talking to me. My feelings for him continued to grow.. I then began to love him. He's not the type of guy who cares what you look like, he only cares about who you are. My best g/f keeps making me feel like crap about him, don't want me talking and hanging out w/ him. I've waned to tell him how I feel so many times. I've even tried giving up on him. Easier said than done. The only thing stopping me is that they are both my best friends and I want them to be happy. I just can't help thinking that things could've been alot different for me if I just told him how I felt in the beginning. What should I do~ should I risk everything and tell him or what? Sorry so long
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Well, you probably have learned a valuable lesson from this. If you never speak up about something you care about, later on you're going to think, what if? That could be me now. You should probably come clean, I mean, your best friend just told you that she dosn't want you talk to him and hanging out with him! That's kind of mean....She should trust you more than that. If you feel like you have something with this guy, and she's making you feel like crap, I say go for it. Best friends don't make each other feel like crap...they're not supposed to.
Her friendship with you dosn't sound geniuine. Personally, if I were in the postion, that's what I would do, is go after what I want especially if my friend treated me that way. He could like you more than her anyways. But you do what you feel is right. You don't want to lose your friend, then keep your feelings to yourself, but if you feel like the best thing for you is to tell this guy how you feel, then go for it hun. Just follow your heart. Hope I helped any! =)
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