Question Posted Wednesday September 1 2004, 5:39 pm
ok... there is this guy i like. everyone says he likes me but i dont think he does. he doesnt talk to me anymore like he used to. when im around him he acts different then when anyone else is there. my mom and his mom both think he likes me but i dont think he does... PLZ HELP
Mercy_x_Me answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 5:44 pm: Dont let your emotions get the best of you. It also sounds like your coming a little down on your self. Chances are if everyone is saying he likes you, he does. I think your getting a little paranoid in a way, but dont worry we all do it. Sometimes life is so sucky we just want to believe with heart and soul that nothing good can happen to us and it CAN. As far as him not talking to you.. did you ever consider making that first effort? It may seem like a big step but in the end you'll benefit. Why dont you invite him to hang out. Ok, it may sound like a big deal but i sware it is proven the best way to find out what any guys really like. Most guys put on shows in public just because its a masculine thing ;-). If you want something a little less social, you guys can go to the movies together, but if you want to talk to him your place or his is good. If you feel way too bashful for any of this, try catching him online, just say hey ! havent talked to you lately..
just make small talk from there. Ask him how he feels about you, i know its fricken scary but once you say it you will feel so relieved of the millions of questions your head is fighting with itself over. Gooodluck sweetie, im here if you need more advice, GO GET THAT GUY!! lol [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
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