ok, well there is this guy ive know for a while now. and ive liked him and and he liked me.. so finnally we stopped keeping in our feelings and told eachother. its been a while since we told eachother but we havent gone out yet. he told me he doesnt wanna go out with me because he is scared to loose me. like if we break up he is scared that i will be mad at him or me break up with him and him be mad at me. so he just doesnt wanna loose me. and this guy is really sweet and all.. but he is like.. really weird into the hugging and kissing girl friends.. he is kinna immature too. should i just stay friends or try and get him to change? or should i just let him relize he has to change and if he does then ill try to work it out with him. thanks for listening <3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? HeardxITxAll answered Thursday August 19 2004, 10:47 am: Something that most ppl try to do is change ppl but the thing is ppl dont change because you want them to you cant mold a person into who you want them to be if they change its because they grew up or went thru something that changed there lives you know something like that. If you really like this guy and you think you should try a relationship take it real slow so that no one ends up getting hurt if it doesnt work out. If it does you can tell him that it bothers you when he hugs other girls and stuff.And if you do break up make it a clean break dont let anything go unanswered because thats what makes ppl not wanna talk to eachother. Tell you friend that you have to take chances in life to live at all. Even if hes a little scared to loose you he should give it a chance because who knows you two could be ment for eachother
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