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GUY PROBLEMS!!
Im 14 female
Ok there this guy I like, his name is "Andy", well Andy and I have known each other since the beginning of summer cause one of my friends introduced me to him. Well we talked a little, but I had never seen him in person or anything. Well one day I was have just a really shitty day and I told him all my problems, about thinking of running away and suicide and everything. and he really cared and listened. Now i talk to him about all my problems. And We have a class together at skewl and hes really hot, and i think i like him, hes just someone i can talk to, the only problem is...he has a girlfriend, but we talk about anything and everything together and i like him! Any ideas on what to do? Sorry so long but I NEED HELP!! oh and in our class i had a laughing fit and i could NOT stop laughing and he was setting there like smiling and laughing at me and my friend! HELP!!!
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I've been there.And it's really tough.Andy seems like a really nice guy.But yeah he has a girlfriend.So in my opinion you have two options.Option #1-Tell him that you have feelings for him beyond friendship.Now how he responds will be the hard part.He could say "Yeah,I like you too ________ but not like that."Or he could say "I like you too ________ but I don't want to screw up the relationship I have with my girlfriend."Or you could be lucky and have the fairy tale ending and he breaks up with his girlfriend and you to live happily ever after.Do you get my point though?There could be alot of alternative endings.Ok.Now Option #2-Wait it out.High school relationships can last anywhere's from a few hours to a couple of years.Yeah most don't last past a few weeks though.So if your a patient person...wait 'till they break up.Of course then you risk a few things.Such as maybe by that time you won't be single.And if worse comes to worse and he doesn't feel the same way about you.Don't screw up the friendship.Meaning you two can still be friends.Even if he doesn't"like you" like you.If it was me I would go with option #1.And in case it doesn't work out...always remember that a pint of Ben and Jerry's can mend a broken heart.
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Ugh.. I've been theRe.. can't have the one you want, because the one you want has someone else. It's heaRt bReaking, it Really is!! But theRe's Really nothing you can do about it. You don't want to bReak the two of them up - that would *DEFINITELY NOT* be cool. This pRobably isn't what you wanted to heaR, but the only thing I can suggest to you is to wait it out. It sounds Rude, but peRhaps they'll be oveR sooneR than you expect. THEN you just have to just jump in theRe, and let him know exactly how you feel! Just be patient.. youR time will come. SoRRie I couldn't be of moRe help!! I wish you the best!!! Thanks foR the question; feel fRee to come back if you eveR need anything else!!
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