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hi, well i really need help. Okay, there is this guy that i was talking to almost all last year's school year and toward the end of school things happened between me and my friends, he seemed to get really mad about what happened and us not being friends anymore and stopped talking to me. He always told me how much he liked me and that he even supossibly "loved" me but then he just stopped talking to me. Well He started to talk to me again and said that he realized that what had happened wasn't really his business to be involved in and that he really likes me and he wants another chance. I talked to him about everything and understood why he did what he did and started to "talk" to him again. We had so many chances to actually have a relationship but he never acted on that. about a month ago i was supposed to hangout with him but i got sick and then the next night we were going to again but he used the excuse he was tired.. so i got mad because he gave me a hard time when i was sick. So anyway i had surgery about a week after that and i cant see anybody really until school starts. He still "loves" me but he never really took the time to ask me how i was feeling after the surgery and then all of a sudden he decided that he was going to try and come to me again. I was told a few things about him, like he was trying to make me not like him and that he liked some one else. I kind of feel like he just comes to me when he wants some one and i dont like that feeling. I really liked him at one point and now i still have those slight feelings deep down. I talked to him about everything again and i thought he understood that it really wasnt going to work. But he is still telling me he really really likes me and stuff. I really dont know what to do because deep down i have those feelings but i dont want to end up getting hurt and im afraid i will because of my past exprience with him.
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i wish i could give better advice here but here it goes...u need to look in ur self to see if u truly love him and if u do then sit him down tell him how u feel and i think it will make him realize that he loves u more than he thinks
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No matter what in a relationship you will get over it. If it is true love then both of you will fall for each other and you will go for him. For your guys past experiences well you have to put the past back in the past and let it go. If you never let it go then things will never change.
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