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gurl u gave me some good advice...this boy had called me the other day and i told him i wanted nuthing to do wit him and he said he loves with all his heart and i told him he has no heart and he doesnt kno wut love is and as hard as it wus for me i pushed him away it was hard...and now i dream about him wit otha gurls and sometimes i cant sleep at night im afraid ill neva move on or ill meet someone but every now and then im goin to wanna just be single and think about this boy who wus my first love and im afraid its him thats going to hold me back from being happy and being myself...im really confused...deep down inside i kno its not right to be with him but as bad as i make him sound we had so many good times...i really can not say much about him cheating on me because i did cheat on him to...so we both hurt eahother we r young and in love i think we r both afraid of commitment...but half of me is saying move on the other is saying go get him gurll...so im thinking if i move on maybe ill be ok...but then u kno those moments where u tired and lonely and u just break down and cry and listen to sad music and u cant sleep and u toss and turn...i dont wanna do that 20 yrs from now wishing i hadnt pushed him away...u kno help me gurl wut shud i do?(i rate)
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I gave you good advice, huh?? Aww, well thanks!! I'm glad I could help, Really. And thank you foR tellin' me... it's always nice to know you'Re appReciated. And now foR my "BRilliant AnsweR" to youR insanely long question! =D Shall we begin? So you both cheated on each otheR... I'm guessing you don't need me to tell you that it's "bad" and it definitely should NOT have been done. Although, I DO undeRstand that kids will be kids, and sometimes theiR own cuRiosity, and/oR lact of contRol, kicks them in the ass. But on the otheR hand, if we don't expeRience new things... how will we eveR know what we'Re missing??? How will we eveR leaRn what love is??? I H.A.V.E been in youR situation befoRe, and I know the pain of heaRtache veRy well, and as much as it huRts to push someone away, I feel |[based on the imfoRmation you've given me]|, that you did the Right thing. I was actually veRy impRessed with youR question. You seem to be a couRageous woman with a good head on heR shouldeRs. You find that now-a-days, w.a.y too many people continue to give theiR heaRt away to someone who won't give them theiRs. I mean.. honestly.. what's the point theRe?? Why would you even WANT to be with someone who doesn't want to be with YOU?? I find it moRe insulting than heaRtbReaking. When I'm in this type of situation I say "fuck 'em; who needs 'em anyways??"... I don't know.. that's just my attitude; just how I am. And those people who claim to have found "someone else", but still find it necessaRy to declaRe theiR "love" foR you paRticulaRly p.i.s.s.m.e.o.f.f!! The way I look at it... if you "love" two, you DON'T "love" eitheR one enough. I mean... youR "loveR" should just come along and sweep you off youR feet. They shouldn't HAVE TO cheat, because they shouldn't WANT anyone else. No one else should even be CLOSE to compaRing to the "love" they have foR YOU! And yes, I do know those huRtful, daRk moments when you just want to bReak down and cRy. And yes, bReak up's aRe upsetting, and they DO huRt, but tRy this : Instead of cRying... blast some poweRful music.. music that encouRage today's independant woman. I'm not Really shoRe what kind of music ya dig, but some examples would be : Janet Jackson, Destiny's Child, Madonna, ChRistina AguileRa, Mandy MooRe and P!nk. I find that this helps me eveRytime!!! And anotheR quick way to "get oveR" someone is to find "someone new". I'm not saying go out and "look" foR a boyfRiend.. like a lot of little giRls do these days... I'm saying don't eveR deny a blooming fRiendship, because you neveR know wheRe it'll take you. And heRe is a valuable life lesson : don't EVER let someone hold you back. Just keep youR head up and always push foRwaRd. The pain will go away with time. It'll get betteR, I pRomise you. Just be stRong and neveR look back!! If you find that you need to talk moRe, I'd be moRe than happie to talk to you on |[AiM : SiMPLY x GiRL]| I wish you the veRy best!! Goodluck, and thank you foR the question. I sinceRely hope I helped!! If you need anything moRe, don't be afRaid to "dRop on in my box?" [That seems to be what they say, eh?] Take caRe!! =D
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