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love-hate


Question Posted Friday August 6 2004, 6:10 pm

hey whuts poppin..ok this is kinda a long story so im gonna try to make it as short as i can...me n this boy james have been goin out on and off for a year now. n the first time we broke up we got in a fight that lasted like 2 months..n then we went out again about 3 months after that n then i broke up with him after 2 months this time bcuz he told one of my best friends stacy that him n her would make a better couple than me n him did bcuz this time that we went out me n him like never talked...but ne ways he sed to stacy he was like "i mean dont get me wrong im in love with brittany but sometimes you cant always get what you want"...n then stacy told me that n it like tore me apart i cried for like 5 hours n im not even lien...and him sayin that made me think that he didnt wanna be with me ne more so i broke up with him...and then he started cryin his eyes out...which is real unusual for him becuz hes like the tough guy thuggish kinda person...and he was jus real upset n he always told all my friends that he still loved me n all that..n he would tell em that all the time too...n then some how we got in ANOTHER fight and it lasted a month n he turned like everyone against me! n he told me how he dunno how he ever liked me n he shoulda listened to his friends when they told him those bitches are a waste of your time n all that shit...i was cryin my eyes out but i gave it right bak to him...n i told him i hated him...ok then like 3 weeks later some guy imed me n i didnt know who it was n then they told they were james's friend...n he was liek why u tell jame su hate him? n i was like cuz i did hate him at the time..n he was like "well hate is a strong word"...n then he sed a whole buncha shit to me like "james has been cryin all the time".."he was readin me yalls fight over the phone n he was like i love this girl man".."this kid would break his fat ass bak for you ma".."he was like god damn he loved you so much" n i was like "yeah i loved him alot too" n he was like "yeah thats the whole thing...you loved him, he still does"...n he sed "when yall were fightin he didnt mean a thing he said"....n then i found out later that it was james who was sayin all that??...n then after a month we made up AGAIN...n then we started goin out again a month ago n he didnt call me for 3 weeks!! n he was callin one of my best friends jackie like everyday! n then ppl were tellin me he was cheatin on me n then jackie told him maybe he should call me...so he called me yesterday n asked me if i was mad at him...n i was like yeah i was cuz i thought u were liek jus not callin me...n he was psh no, my phone was broken, shit ive been thinkin about you tho....ok but tell me how the hell would he call jackie if his phone was broken?...everrrrryone says i need to get rid of him cuz he treats me bad...n my mom tells me im too attached to him...but i dont wanna break up with him cuz i luv him so much! but i need some other advice besides "lettin him go"...what should i do? <3brittany

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paradiei3abii3x answered Saturday August 7 2004, 11:04 am:
Well, this is pretty crazy..lol. I'm not so sure what to tell you, but if it were me, I would try and talk to him about it, or have a friend do it. And, fighting is supposed to help relationships..it like tells you that either you shouldn't be together, or it helps you know each other more..basically, you should do what your heart tells you. If you want to stay with him, go riight ahead, just don't let him toss you around and treat you like an object. Hope I helped you.

<3 Katie

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