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My new boyfriend
Ok i just started going out with this boy named jhon 3 days ago.And i have really deep feelings for him but it doesnt seem like he feels da same way!! I am having so many doubts about this relationship!A couple of reasons im having doubt is becasue 1.He started sayin i love u the first day.2.we just met 6 days ago.3.He was goin to make out with a gurl 2 days before we started going out at the puerto rican parade!4.his friends said that he said he wouldnt care if i broke up with him.And i kinda have a gut feeling a brakeup is coming.Im afraid to talk to him about it.and he already wants to have sexual intercourse with me!?!?! I am ready but it doesnt seem right! It seems like he is using me! What do you think i should do? I dont know if i can talk to him.And i dont want to brake up! But i dont wanna get hurt! Maybe i am just so selfconcious because i always get hurt!
~lily~
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Whoa!!! Definitely sounds to me like this boy needs to put on the brakes!!!6 days into knowing each other,3 days into going out and he wants sex?!?!?! No no no!!!!!!! I think you definitely need to talk to this boy,let him know that you think things are moving too fast and you wanna take the time to get to know him.I hate to say this,but it looks like this time it's not you being self-concious,it's him!He does sound like a user to me.While his friends may not always be the most reliable sources to go to,they do know him best,and guys tend to be more blunt and honest about those things than girls are.And especially if they came to you about this,they may know their friends rep and track record and be trying to look out for you!And you definitely want to know a person longer than 6 days before you go into a relationship.In my opinion,it's a great thing to be friends with a guy first,or to take it slow and date for a while before making things official.You want to really get to know that person,and find out if you two are really compatable!Don't be afraid to talk to him,stand up for yourself,let him know you think things are moving way too fast and you want them to slow down.If he can't accept and respect that,then A)He's not worth it!,and B)It's time to show him the door!!You deserve to be treated right!!!Keep in touch with me,let me know how it all goes!!! :)
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