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i have a boyfriend. we have been together for over half a year. i love him so much, i'm IN love with him. he's the most perfect person i've met in my life, its undescribable. he means the world to me and i would never want to lose him. in the past we've made out, and gone a little more than making out... but not sex. but today he came over to my house, and it was empty. we were on the ground making out and one thing lead to another. he took my shirt off, it was a lttle uncomfortable. i knew what i was getting myself into but i did it anyways. then i thought it wasnt so bad, and i guess i liked it. then it got to the point where he was only in his boxers and i was only in my underwear and bra. i just dont know if what we're doing is wrong or not, what do you think? after all, you never know where your limits are when youre in love
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well, this is your call. if you ever get uncomfortable around another person, including loved ones, tell them. no one has a right to push you around and tell you what to do. as long as you have control of the situation, then you shouldnt have anything to worry about. you can stop what you are doing whenever you want if it gets a little uncomfortable, or if you dont like it. if things did get a little out of control, however, maybe its time you and him sat down and talked about ways to not let it get out of hand. that, or perhaps you should take a break of doing those things... just a week or so, maybe a few days, see how things go. once again, this is your call. if you think that what you were doing was ok, then by all means dont stop doing it. but if you thought that it was wrong, or un-healthy, then you should definitly stop doing, and talk to him about it. and yes, i know how it is to get "caught up" in the moment. things are very very difficult to resist. but you still have to remind yourself that you are the boss of you and you should always consider rights or wrongs when doing something major. and for deciding whether you are in love or not... well, frankly, half a year is a long time, at least for younger people. most of my friends have relationships that last one, maybe two months. over half a year is pretty serious, and maybe its time you thought about if you really saw a serious future with this guy.
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