ok well theres this guy that i have liked for awhile .. and he says he likes me but he just doesnt want the "commitment". and well we kinda went out i guess for a few days, but then i guess he realized he just really doesnt want a girlfriend. It made me really upset. And now he just says that i really mean something to him, and all this other crap. And i kinda just dont want to be his friend so i dont have to deal with liking him.. and then he just says how much i mean to him and that he really wants to be my friend and stuff ..im not sure what to do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xOCarrie answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 2:53 am: It basically means he`s not at that time in life where he is ready to make such a commitment. He has a great fear of loosing so in the mean time he wants to be your friend and care about you for as long as he can until he is ready. If he keeps telling you how much he really does care about you, it means he wants more of a "best friendship" so he can hold on to you. Dont forget about this one he sounds like a keeper. Good luck.
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