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Angry
I recently got engaged about 2 months ago to a woman whom I had an
affair with over 2yrs ago. We've had numerous arguments over those 2yrs,
mainly due to things she has done that I just dont understand how, or why
she would do..One such argument had to do with a vacation that we were
planning to do in Jamaica. This was about 6mos. ago. We hadnt booked
anything yet, but then got into an argument because we went out with her
friend and his husband. Bottom line, my fiance(although not at this
time) and her friends husband went to the bar by themselves, leaving
myself and her friend to talk. After a couple of minutes, I stood up to see
where they were at, when I looked at the bar I seen them do a toast,
then kiss on the lips..nothing major, but it really pissed me
off..Anyway, that was the cause of this particular argument. Two days later,
(still arguing about it), I found out that my fiance(not at this time) had
booked this Jamaica trip with her best friend, another girl(not the one
at
the bar)..This infuriated me. Since then, we have worked things out..I
told her that doing this made me sick and that hopefully she will never
do something like this again. We then got engaged. I have taken, or was
given the ring back twice since then due to arguing. I have the ring in
my possession now. We are sort of in a stalemate pattern right now..i.e
trying to work things out again. I just found out that she is trying to
setup another vacation to Bermuda with this friend again. This is
absolutely wrong in my book, but she doesnt see it that way..My question is,
dont you think both these situations are wrong on her part?? How can I
go about making her realize that if two people love one another, they
should want to do things with each other, not apart?
Thank You..
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i think u are absolutly right. Its wrong to kiss someone on the lips if u have fiance. if it was on the cheek, like ia friendly hello goodbye kiss u would hav had nothin to worry bout. but her going to jamacia with a FRIEND instead of u is completely wrong. expecialy when u two hav been planning to go TOGETHER. I think u really love her but i dont think she luvs u as much maybe not at all. ur better off leaving her. She'll realize how much she really luv's u and make u come back.
Hope this helps!
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Friend
I have been happily married for 5 years and have a ovely little baby girl. My wife have never (not when were dating for 10 years, or engaged for 1) even went to a movie with another guy.
My advice: dump her and save your energy for someone that deserves you.
Regards
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