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roomate caught masturbating in my room
Thank god for anonimity. I have a sex doll and yesterday my roomate begged me to go get him beer. Since I didn't want him drinking and driving I decided to be nice and go get it for him. I have a camera in my room and I checked it and while I was gone, he came into my room and screwed around with my dool and jerked off to it. I didn't see anything on her, but maybe he was wearing a condom, cause you can hear on the video that he got off. I came home and he was all chatty and friendly and thankful for getting his beer. Talking to me like nothing.
I want to make him pay for the doll its pretty much new and now he's defiled it. I don't even wanna touch it, let alone screw it. He ruined it for me and I want to make him buy it off me at full price. I wonder if there is a way to do that? I could say "pay me for what you stole from me, or your ex and kids are gonna see that video." But, that could blow up in my face.
I want him to pay for it, but he will probably refuse. Dunno what to do, take him to court over $700?
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There's an old saying: "Anybody can sue anyone for anything." But , then comes the matter of winning, and after that, trying to collect whatever damages you've been rewarded. In this instance, I would strongly advise you not to try and do this. First, your case would probably be thrown out as being frivolous.
Your thougts of how to get even or threaten your room mate would most likely bring greater problems back on you, if you decided to try doing what you've planned.
Neither you, nor your room mate sound like anyone who would be a good choice to live with , since there is deception, using someone else's belongings without permission, spying, vengeful feelings, hostility, etc.
The whole situation , to begin with, is bizarre. My advice to you is to let this go. And then, move elsewhere and live alone: problem solved .
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If it was new, how long has it been sitting in your room? Just wondering if you have tape of him using it before. You mention about avoiding drinking and driving. So I can only imagine he was drinking before and knew you would go get him beer. if I understand right, he didn't just ask if you would get beer, he begged and begged. There's no way to prove his intention was to get you out of the house so he could go use it. Either it was curiousity or he wants one himself. I think the best way to go about it is to show him the video, but make a copy first, download on to a chip and hide that somewhere in case he wants to destroy evidence later. But showing him the video should curtail him denying it, lieing or whatever. Once he's seen it, then make your case about it being new, and how you can't bear to use it now that he's touched it. So now you won't use it and paid $700. for it. Then instead of saying you want him to pay for it. Ask him what he thinks you both can do to satisfactorily end this issue? If he doesn't volunteer to pay for it, then you can suggest it. Keep in mind that if you have to take him to court, you will most definitely lose a room mate. For the future, though it won't help this issue, get a locking door knob, the kind that needs a key like the front door and if its an apartment, save the original knob to reinstall if you ever move. Keep the key on you, not hidden in the home where he could search for and possibly find. Ask yourself if it was more the being untrustworthy, doing something devious, hiding that he even entered your room that is bothering you. If it were me, I wouldn't even want the person as a roommate in the future regardless of whether I get my money back or not. He knows what he did was wrong, to go into your room and touch anything that belongs to you, sex doll or not, because he is keeping quiet and not confessing. If I was missing a sock and we both recently did laundry, I might check a roommates sock drawer after calling them first to ask if I could go look and if they don't answer, I would wait because without permission, having someone enter my private domain is like a burglar breaking and entering, although he didn't have to break in, the entering alone is abuse of your privacy. He may not pay and you may or may not win in court. You could wash the whole thing well, sanitize it all over and use it if you can't get the money back to get a new one. But for sure, I'd plan on finding a roommate to replace him
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