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Virginity
Can a girl lose her virginity though anal sex(yes or no)
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My simple answer is yes and no. I believe you will understand after I give a mini history lesson and choose which you resonate with, the yes or no.
Men created the word virginity to mean a woman who had never been touched by a man. This was created in days where paternity tests and birth control did not yet exist and the word virgin or virginity still exists today.
The word 'virgin' can either be a noun or adjective. If you understand the meanings of the adjective, you'll get a clear picture of how it relates to the female. Heres a link to the dictionary meanings:[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
So if you happened to hear someone mention a virgin forest, it would not be a forest that has not had sex yet but a forest not altered by human activity or more to the point, no human has ever set foot in, cut trees from, cleared areas, etc.
If virgin meant not yet touched by a man, that would include holding hands,touching the face, running hands through the hair, kisses, a shoulder rub, and though pleasant, thats not what I would consider sex on its own. But it can be a part of foreplay for sex, the stuff one does to get in the mood or aroused enough to have sex.
So back in history, men who owned property and wed a woman could not know if she was carrying another mans child early on before it showed and he didn't want some one elses son or daughter to inherit anything of his. Okay, that sounds reasonable. But today it has evolved in some cultures that push virginity as a must, to meaning that no penis has ever entered her vagina. The original meaning that there is a chance she could be pregnant has been changed to meaning a woman has been sullied, dirtied somehow and now is no longer valuable to become the wife of some guy. This practice often goes hand in hand with the practice of arranged marriages.
So now you have to decide which definition you will go with.
If you choose the one meaning never touched by a male, at least below the waist, then the anal sex would disqualifty you and you would no longer be a virgin.
If you choose never having the kind of sex, the only kind that can get you pregnant, meaning sperm having a way to get inside you, either from the penis or precum on his fingers then inside you, then you qualify to be still a virgin because you only had anal sex.
I still think thats an old fashioned word that doesn't fit in todays society. If you can answer the following, perhaps you're smarter than me.
The question concerns gay couples. At what point when two women are having a sexual relationship with each other do they lose their virginity if virginity is connected to one set of female and one set of male sexual parts, and the same goes for two men in a relationship. They would not qualify under being untouched. So having sex or being a virgin is really what it means to you. I highly doubt that gay couples who are in love never have sex. Sex can be the word that covers all things sexual in nature. Just as the word pastry isn't one thing, but many different things, cakes, pies, cookies, scones, turnovers, cupcakes, and so on.
Another thing that did not exist in the past was dildo's and other sexual toys. So if having anything in ones vagina meant she was no longer a virgin, then dildos would qualify as being something that broke the virginity or for that matter tampons. I had a girl asking if she could wear tampons because she was worried it would mean she was no longer a virgin and she wouldn't ask her mom.
So the better terminology would be, at what age did a person start to become aware of their sexual urges and begin to experiment with ways of getting to an orgasm. It may more likely have been without a partner using masturbation, creams and toys. I would say since you had anal sex you qualify as an exploring and learning sexual creature, not that you lost something like virginity.
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