Question Posted Wednesday November 22 2017, 2:00 pm
I'm a 14 year old girl whose 5 feet, and from my experience tall girls are always so angry and bitter. Well, not always, some tall girls are nice, but the majority of the time they are always trying to put short people, especially short girls, down and praising themselves to no end. They get so annoyed when guys like short girls and keep bitching about short girls "stealing" tall guys from them. Like I get you wanna date a guy taller than you but you can't just reserve them for yourself, lol...single guys are fair game. I don't understand why tall girls have to be so rude and bitter and bitchy. Why are they like this?
If you put yourself in their place, I'm sure you'd find it irritating at the least, and likely there are plenty of bad comments like you are a giant, a giraffe or skyscraper, etc.
I am not saying that their responses and reactions are appropriate. Now think of a person who has some kind of visible deformity. Most people like that will resent the stares and thoughtless comments after a while and suspect everyone of being so and so rather than waiting to defend themselves, take a route of being on the offense, doing what they can to keep people at arms length.
If people who get teased, bullied, stared at all their life, the best thing is to learn how to put other people at ease. I am short but if I were tall, I would beat people to the remarks by sharing jokes about my stature . If I had a visible disability, I would likely explain to people my condition and may the first attempt to converse. There are girls who are taller, and even at 5'10 are two inches shorter than 6 ft guys. But if a gal is much taller, she'll have problems including shoes and clothing that fit. Most pants will be too short. They have shops for extra tall men to find clothes but not for women as tall women are more rare than tall men. It would suck not being able to walk into just any store. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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