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Will anal sex disvirgin you
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
Actually, both MrKaman and Adviceman have correct points depending on how you are viewing the situation. For todays standard of what the public in large believes 'virgin' means, most people assume it means only penis in vagina sex. The word virgin if used as in virgin forest, means a forest untouched by any human. No human has ever set foot there. So most people mean that no mans penis has ever entered the vagina.
I have also read that ones sexuality is not losing or gaining anything from having intercourse which I translate as penis in vagina sex. A female can put all sorts of dildos in there and yet still consider themselves a virgin. However our sexuality didn't start on the day we had penis in vagina sex. It is more complex involving kissing and touching, oral sex, anal sex and intercourse.
So if a person truly loses virginity when its only penis in vagina sex, then answer this:
At what point are gay couples no longer a virgin? Both have vagina's or both have penis's. So the term 'Virgin' is very outdated and no longer fits for todays sexuality. The answer is, when a person begins to explore their sexuality on their own like masturbating or heavy petting, oral, vagianl or anal sex, it is all parts of the same thing, getting ones feet wet sexually. I do not know if there is a word for that yet but there should be.
The concept of women being called virgins was something that men came up with in long ago times when there was no birth control and no paternity tests. Men wanted to know a womans child was his and not some other mans. Back then there was no way to know. And so started this concept of telling women that they had to be virgins when they married, and men back then meant virgin as untouched sexually by another man. This did not just refer to intercourse but if a woman was at any point alone with a man in a room or somewhere without a third person escort, it was assumed she could have had sex and no longer be a virgin, her reputation for being untouched was now gone because there was no way to prove they did or didn't do it. It was just assumed that it had happened. I hope this straightens out everything for all.
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Mr. Kaman is wrong. When we speak of virginity we speak of someone who has not had penis to vagina intercourse. Anal sex does not meet that description. Many women who wish to be vaginal virgins on their wedding night engage in anal sex to satisfy there boyfriend desire to have sex with them.
Back in the old days to prove a woman was a virgin her Hyman had to be intact and it was expected she would bleed when her husband ruptured the Hyman during their first intercourse. This would take place on their wedding night in the home of the girls mother. The next morning the mother of the bride would proudly hand the blood stained sheet out the bedroom window to show the town her daughter was a virgin upon marriage.
Today an active woman my loose her Hyman playing sports, dancing, horseback riding or bike riding. Today the definitions of a virgins is as I wrote above, "A woman who on her wedding night has not experienced penis to vagina intercourse.
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Anal sex is a type of sexual intercourse. A virgin is a person who has not engaged in sexual intercourse. If a person has anal sex they are no longer a virgin.
This is according to Webster definitions of those terms. people may have differing personal definitions.
@adviceman49; i beg to differ. here are my sources.
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