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What goes with being a virgin? Is it unhealthy to be one?
Hello, my name is Tamara I'm 27 years old and had NEVER had relationships let alone sexual ones, not even Hans holding or kissing either, LOL, aww Lord that sounds sad xD Anywho I was wondering is it ok being a virgin for sooo long? I'm really uncomfortable with the subject, that I get genuinely have no interest in it. I hope it isn't bad. The jist of this is, is it unhealthy?
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Hi dear, just saw this and I wanted to be clear about your phrase that you genuinely have no interest in it. If you mean you have no interest in having sex ever, there are other people just like you who do not care to have sex even if they have a libido and others who don't have sex because their sexuality is such that they have no desire at all. Some have experimented and come to that conclusion while others just know its not for them and have never had sex. In this day and age and with the internet, and media, there is so much more information on gender types, sexuality types and non are considered abnormal. It would actually be more abnormal for there to not be a variety of gender or sexual preferance differences in people. So don't worry. If I understood your statement wrong and you do want sex but haven't found the person you want to have it with, it won't hurt you to not have it. Think of all the Monks or Nuns who went straight into service as virgins. None of them have suffered illnesses or other problems for lack of sex. If you do want it eventually, there is nothing wrong with waiting as long as it takes to find Mr. Right for you. There are more people who had sex early in life and regret the experience as it was not special, they were too young and did not have much knowledge learned on the subject. If its a matter of becoming comfortable and learning about sex before you actually decide to go for it, then I'd like for you to check out info on the internet. Theres a gal about your age who has a video blog of every possible piece of info on sexuality, the most common questions answered and relationship and gender info also. Very entertaining, sometimes funny, and short videos right to the point. She presents real facts. I would encourage you to check out this site of Laci Green and heres the link: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
I fell in love with this site and suggest it often after seeing the best info on hymens, and easy to understand which she calls "You can't pop your cherry--Hymen 101" Please check this all out if you are interested in self educating to be more comfortable whether you decide you are hetero, gay, transgender, Asexual, etc...
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It is not unhealthy at all!! A lot of guys find it attractive and some might even be surprised. It just shows you care about yourself and once you are ready you will be. There is no rush do not be embarrassed. Its a common instant to be but it really is not a big deal at all.
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yes its great be a virgin wished i woulld of waited. but anyhow nothing wrong with it, when your redy to you will =)
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No, there is no health risk to abstaining from sex. If you never want to have sex, you are free to do so.
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