Question Posted Wednesday January 18 2017, 11:29 am
Hi,
I am jharna.i want to die immediately. Because I want a child but my husband have already two children from his first wife,and that children don't want my child.my husband also support there decision.so my life is meaningless that's why I am feeling absolutely very alone and I can't live without my child so I want to die immediately..plz somebody help me and suggest me what I will do ?
AaronAgassi answered Thursday January 19 2017, 12:06 am: If maternity is the only source of meaning, then something is pervasively wrong in your life. Womanhood defines you, but so do other things. But if the choice is between motherhood and suicide, motherhood does seem at all less extreme. There is however, also the wellbeing of the child to consider. How best to frame the problem? If you are feeling so blue, then you need adequate emotional support. Where is there to turn? Is it a problem of another mouth to feed, or resources and money? Can you improve your finances? Some people actually choose to become single parents, even with all the complications. Or maybe you need a husband who also wants more children. None of this is simple or easy. You must gather your thoughts, to even begin working out the right questions and figure out what sort of help you want. [ AaronAgassi's advice column | Ask AaronAgassi A Question ]
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