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Long distance love
I dated a guy for a year and 5months.Few months down the line,we had to go to our separate universities far awayand we lost contact.After a year,we started talking again.We fell for each other again.Anytime we are together,we kiss(thats the only thing we do besides talking and playing).I told him abt my fling with another guy in sch.He was angry and jealous.He told me he wants to be my first everything(He doesn't touch me).He keeps telling me that will continue choosing me over other people.I know he has flings with other girls,bt he doesnt want me to have with other guys.How sure can it be that he loves me??. And do you think we can have a future together?
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That's the definition of double standards. Why does he get to hookup with other women but you sit around and wait for him like a good girl. If you are meant to be it will be but until then you should live your life. Have flings or random hookup, you are young and it's not written in stone that he is the one for you. Try new thing and see where it takes you. You don't owe him anything, you owe it to yourself to live your life to the fullest.
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No one can predict the future. Long distance romances rarely if ever workout especially without some sort of communication while apart. Which brings about the question of; do you communicate while apart?
They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. This may be true but it also makes for loneliness which generally makes people seek out others for comfort and companionship.
There is not much information here to say if he loves you or not. He is being very selfish by saying you can't be with other guys for I believe he is probably seeing other women .
This is the 21st century and you have as much rights as he does. He has not made any pledge to you and until he does you have every right to date, have a sex life if you chose and fall in love with someone else.
My advice for what it is worth is that you enjoy your college years. Go ahead and date and have fun college is not all work and no play. If the opportunity presents itself and you feel its right to do so go ahead and let it happen. Do not save yourself for him for I seriously doubt he will be there come graduation.
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