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ANYBODY ELSE HAVE FAMILY LIKE THIS
MY FAMILY gets offended by my facebook posts, and told my family they don't like me nor want me around...I laughed out loud when I heard that and said high school was 13 yrs ago....I was like I didn't realize our mindsets were supposed to be the same...nope im not into people controlling me and telling me what to do etc....I wasnt put on earth to be your friend, nor for you to like me.....my facebook page is mine and I post what I want......
I feel that if my posts don't apply to you, then you shouldn't get offended ...and they don’t have to read em….we are all still on bad terms and no longer speak and they don't like me but they wont tell me that to my face because they know Im going to hurt their feelings, so they talk shyt behind my back, that's what toddlers do but Ive always kept my distance from them for years and only come around on various holidays if I feel like it, they are just some people im related 2, I don’t have to be around them nor live with them....
I don't kiss butt, I know no good when I see it.....and If something is wrong im going to say something....i wasn’t put on earth to be anyones friend……im not the type to allow the negative to go on just because that is what the Jones do....u don’t allow kids to fight, I know im not the parent, but if I see something wrong im going to make sure it stops…the same folks wonder why babymamas and babydaddies exist, because there is no discipline and they allow ignorance and act like sheep…..
if we as people allow the negative to continue our world will never get better and I will speak on that on various forums…my posts are open to the public and I don’t care…you can like it or not…you may or may not agree wit you me but im still going to voice how I feel and not put up with ignorance to “fit in” I refuse to be a follower”...i will always be me weather u like it or not….I dont have any drama in my life, no kids etc...so I guess they don't like me because im not miserable like them.....
i have freedom of speech and I use it, and I keep my personal life personal…so my family doesn’t know anything about me unless I tell them verbally or someone sees something and runs their mouth…..they don’t know me…I keep to myself and im sure you can see why….
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We can;t pick our family, we're born into it. And thats saying that what we wish we had, a 100% normal loving supportive family isn't always what we get.
When you say family, I'm assuming parents and siblings if not extended family also. While we all wish our parents being older were more mature than us, that also isn't always the case. It doesnt take mature intelligent people to create babies.
I will state that every family seemse to have at least one bad apple if not more. In my case, computers didn't exist when I was growing up and my parents (now gone) never got to use cell phones. So facebook wasn't ever an issue in my family nor even now. Of the siblings, I seem to be the one who knows more about using a pc than my sisters. However I did twice in the past have family stop talking to me over 'imagined' against them...grievances committed by me. I am one to admit when I am wrong as I wish to be a better person than the one I was the day before but in these cases, I was never at fault. Once Mom stopped talking to me, totally ignored, wouldn't look my way tho we worked in the same company. It became very obvious to co workers. Another time, Dads feelings got hurt and he told a sibling and both he and the sibling stopped talking to me. I am talking no contact for months, like 6 mos straight or more. So, yes, I understand how helpless you can feel to right things when its the family who is spinning out of control and I know how it hurts or is embarassing at the least to be ignored. But sometimes, we have to stick to our guns and just move forward.
What I can say is that if, whenever your family decided to come down off their high horse and stop critisizing your FB or anything else and just love you, be ready to accept them back with welcome arms. Do not bring up the past and what they did. Don't pressure them to ask you for forgiveness. All that can stir up their anger again and fact that they seem to be very immature and childish, thats an easy thing to do. I had to love back and not wait for apologys. I never did recieve apologies and as time went on, I realized it didn't matter. What mattered is that we were once again together and a loving family again.
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