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I never had a boyfriend in my life and time goes by fast..... How do I get a boyfriend? .........
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My question is why do you think you have never had a boyfriend? Second, how old are you? If you are younger, such as teens or early twenties, ask yourself why this is so important to you right now? Because while you are young, it is so important to date yourself first. Focus on your career, hobbies, and going out with friends. While you are enjoying life and keeping busy you will attract the right man for you.
If you are older and confident in yourself, then maybe you need to get out more. Go to places where you can meet guys that would be your type and then be open to them approaching you. Trust me, if you are sitting in a nice restaurant by yourself looking your best, a guy will not be able to resist coming up to you. Guys are more intimidated when you are with a group of chicks.
Once you start dating, if you want the relationship to become serious, do not have sex with the guy for a couple of months and once you are sure he has feelings for you. You can tell by the things he does and how he makes you feel. If you have sex before he develops an attachment to you then the relationship is going to be short lived. Guys lose interest real quick when they get what they want too soon.
All in all, it is important in life to find our love inward instead of looking for outside gratification. Once we do that, everything else falls into place. Good luck!!!
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I'm guessing you are in high school, so that's how I will answer this question.
First of all, you need to consider why you really want a boyfriend, and what purpose a boyfriend would serve. I am 17 and have never dated, but I have experience with other people. I know that for myself, I want to date someone who will support me, care about me, and listen to me. In my school there are few boys like this, therefore I have never dated. Just consider this for a moment. There is nothing wrong with wanting a boyfriend just as someone to hang out with, but if you want a boyfriend just to fit in, maybe that's not enough of a reason.
No matter what your reason, there are a number of ways to acquire a boyfriend.
Most likely there is someone out there who catches your eye, or maybe multiple someones who you think maybe could be boyfriend material. Once you have someone in mind, you can go about this two ways. The first way would be to flirt with him a little for a while, then just straight out ask him out (make sure he is single first...). If you don't want to be so bold, I would suggest flirting with him. Make eye contact briefly when you see him, say hi, try to make conversation if opportunity arises, do your best to get closer to him, like if you're at a party, move across the room to be closer. Laugh at his jokes, respond when he talks to you. To step it up a little, compliment him, joke with him, add in a little casual physical touch like high fives, playfully hitting him on the arm when you make a point, or stuff like that. If you need pointers, I have attached a link to the wikihow on how to flirt.
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Hopefully this helps!
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