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Fingering for 7 months now is it time for sex?
I am 12 years old and me and my boyfriend are really close he has been fingering me in the disabled toilet at school at lunch I really want to have sex with him I'm not on my period but I love him so much we have been going out for 3 years now and he has been fingering me for 7 months and I enjoy it please let me know if I can sleep with him
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You are 12 years old and as liberal as I am in my views with young people and sex. I have to say you are too young to even be allowing your boyfriend to finger you let alone even thinking of going all the way with him.
There are several sound reason for this besides your age.
First: Your body, while possibly having the shape of an older girl is not ready to be penetrated by a penis. The muscles of your vagina have not yet released and penetration will be painful and could injure them for life.
Second: If you have started into puberty there is an excellent chance you will get pregnant. Both of you are too young to buy condoms or any type of birth control. Sex without birth control is foolish.
Third: I can tell you for a fact young boy do not love they lust. Look up the definition of both words. As long as you let him do these things to you he will stay with you. Once you say no he will be gone. He will ask you to prove your love for him by having sex with him. Sex is not the way to prove your love.
Fourth: Your twelve years old. Do you really want a reputation for the next six years in school of being sexually easy. Give yourself some credit you deserve better than boys whose only interest in you will be to have sex with you.
Fifth: You're not mature enough for sex and you will not be for at least five more years. The consequences of a sex life are long. Do you want to be a teenage parent.
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if you feel you need to ask a stranger to get our permission and okay and approval for you to make this next step, then you are definitely NOT ready.
You are also still very young, even though I know you have hormones going thru your body making this feel so good. With having sex, comes responsibility to take precautions to not become pregnant by the girl getting on birth control, and the guy using condoms to prevent STD's. If I am right, Planned Parenthood works with helping teens on birth control but I think the HIPPA law that allows them to work with teen girls giving them the pill for example under total confidentiality may have an age limit of 14 and older. You could check if its different in your area. But I would advise waiting until you are older for sex. We usually tell the young kids your age that their best option is to masturbate. That is still your best option. ANd since you both are already doing so with each other, either self masturbation or mutual masturbation for each other should be your limit for a couple years yet.
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