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15/f
ok, so i have this one friend, actually shes like my best friend, and i love her and all, but lately shes getting on my last nerve. shes acting like a huge slut. shes sending pictures of her boobs, and her vagina, TO GUYS SHE DOESNT EVEN KNOW. like i mean, i know them. and some im really good friends with. and she constantly wants to call them and uhh and they keep asking me about her, and saying how shes such a slut. and a whore, and like all this bad stuff. and its making me look bad. i mean, i dont even know how she got all of there numbers. i mean, she probably took most of them from my address book. but whatever, how do i fix this? i dont want them to hate me.
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She apparently is enjoying the attention from these guys, even if it is negative attention. I'm not sure why the guys would hate you for what your friend is doing. But you could tell them that whay she is doing is not a reflection on you as a person, and she is only doing it for the attention, and to stop making a big deal about it.
As for your friend, tell her that you do not want to be associated with someone who is acting the way she is, and that it makes other people think that you act that way too. Tell her that you can't be her friend if she is going to act this way.
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Well your friend is asking for it. She's just getting taken advantage of, the guys don't like her for just her, they "like" her cause she puts out. And ask her where she got the numbers.
Is she really your friend? I mean it's diffrent if she cares about you and doesn't want you doing that stuff (but she really shouldn't be doing that anyway)otherwise you don't wanna be friends with a girl like that, surround yourself by good people, but if you still want to be friends with her, the best you can do is talk to her about it or write a letter and address to her that you don't like the way how she's acting if she really is your best friend she'd listen to your advice. She's so young, and it's really trashy that shes doing that. You don't want who to hate you? Whoever "them" is shouldn't hate you they should appreciate they have a friend like you watching out for them, and the other people shouldn't hate you you're just watching out for a friend. :)
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