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jealousy
so me and my best friend are super close, alot closer then most friendsare, but recently she has become friends with this girl. and the yare like super close, she tells me all the time your my bestfriend she is just my good friend, but recently it seems like she chooses this girl over me all the time. and i dnt know what to do. its not like im neccissarily getting mad but i dnt know if its jealousy its joust kind of annoyence. i suppose. so what can i do?
f/16
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well i think the best thing that you can do is talk to your best friend. i am sure that she isnt trying to replace you she probably just wants to meet new people. i wouldnt take it personally and if it really bothers you then just talk to your friend about it. i am sure she will understand. hope i helped shenaye!!! i love you (i reallly hope this is you)lol <3
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me and my best friend have had this problem for the last couple months. we've been best friends for about 8 or 9 years, and then all of a sudden she became really close with this other girl and does EVERYTHING with this girl and i guess forgets about me. but she swears that me and her are better friends.
there really isnt anything you can do. ive been trying to figure it out too. ive realized that as long as they are friends, im going to have this jealousy problem.and i cant make them not be friends because thats not right either, so just talk to your friend about it. i had this talk with my best friend a couple days ago, and it really does help. just tell her how you feel. its not going to solve the problem, but it will make you feel better. try hanging out with your friend more, because it will help you guys become closer again and maybe she will stop chosing her other friend over you sometimes. just remember that you cant make them not be friends or do anything to make them not be friends because you want to be closer to her, because thats not right to either of them either.
good luck! and i hope everything turns out good
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Sounds like your friend justs like meeting new people, and when you meet new people and have a connection they tend to hang around that person alot more, talk to your best friend saying "we never hang out anymore, we should hang out sometime" kind of thing, or to make this cool where you don't feel left out of it plan for all 3 of you to get out together, get to know the other girl too, this could help out bunch or if she (the other girl) seems to be out of place and annoying to you just ignore the girl or accept that shes friends with your best friend, many people can have more than one best friend and you can too, if you have another friend or other friends hang out with them too not just her, it can get annoying if you hang out with just her, you can make other good friends too- :).
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this is the exact probablem I had with my friends. Try to make friends with this other girl. I did it and now we're all friends and I didn't lose my bestfriend!
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