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my bad luck with parties-my friend and i just got back toget
ok my best friend and i hated eachother because of something happened since we loved eachother started about 2-3 months ago idk seemed like forever. today we talked for hours tomarrow theres a party he said hope to see you there before he left and also befor i asked if he was going he said HELL YEA will you. and us kinda hateing eachother started because of a party and tomarrow is the first party were both going to since. their like totally different kinds different everything. like the last party was a airsoft-running through the woods together...then goes inside and a certain game messed it all up. now its a swimming party at a friends grandmas house. soooo will it be different? what could i do if it happenes again which its a 50/50 chance but i told him ill go. and the 2 party hosts people are cousins one guy a total player and the girl my friend has never held hands with a guy but is into all the soo popular peoples which me and them arent to good together like oil and water, dont mix. but weve become close again within only the last 2 days. i dono what will happen. and what could i do if we like...get mad at eachother again?! 13/f hes 13/m party peoples are over 14/f and over 14/m
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Hey whats up,
You fighting,getting mad at each other, hating each other at a certain party, then making up again, then you thinking that since your going to a party again, then you will fight again, I'm sorry, but thats just really silly.
I know exactly how you feel about this, because i've been there practically in the same situation, and after it, I was like, how stupid of me to even think that. Seriously, you are not gonna get mad at each other because there is no reason for that,and these are totally different parties and at a totaly different time.
I mean.. are you like gonna freak out everytime you go to a party with him now, afraid that the past is gonna repeat itself?
Listen, whats done is done, and this was like a while ago, and you both coped with it and learned to get along, so just get over this issue, put it behind your back, and go to this party tomorrow, and talk to him and have fun together and maybe even go to the pool together and just enjoy your time, cause thats what parties are about, to relax and have a good time, not to freak out about going and meeting your own best friend.
Its cool, ight? and nothing is gonna go wrong, your just worried and you care about him too much, and your afraid that you could lose each other again, but its in your hand to lose him or gain him, so seriously just show him from the start that your there to have fun and enjoy your time, and you could still act careful so as not to cause a fight or anything, but don't worry, everything will okay.
Now consider what i said, and if you need any further advice, please be free to contact me. I hope all goes well. Goodluck:)
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