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Ugh. Boy Troubles.
I`m a pretty funny person and I`m average looking, I`m not popular but somehow every time I like a guy we end up going out. I don`t have a problem with this but everytime I get a boyfriend we go out for 3 or 4 days then I break up with him. Like my attention will actracted to another guy or something . Sometimes me and the first guy will get back together then break up again. What should I do ? I hate doing this all the time.
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Your problem seems to be that you don't think about it before you act. You get a crush on a guy you haven't considered whether he'd make a good boyfriend or not, and you go "Hey I like you! Lets go out." Soon, get to know him some more and he's not what you'd consider the ideal boyfriend. Then you break up, move on to another guy, and the whole thing begins over again. To avoid this, get to know a guy before you go out so you know whether he's boyfriend material. It also helps to let your liking for him develope more, so if you do ever go out, your interest won't turn to someone else so quickly.
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What you should do is try to make it work out by not arguing,disagreeing with things,show the guy how interested you are in the relationship,spending time with him when he wants you to be,and always being nice to him.You should tell them that you want the relationship to go right and not end up breaking up.You should also tell him you want to get to know about him like his family,his personnal interests,and his dreams which will show him that you really like him which will make him want to be with you and not break up with you.
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Don't go out with everyone you like unless you are absolutely sure you won't like someone else in a few days. If you like a few guys at the same time, don't go out with any of them unless you figure out which one you like more.. you don't have to have a b/f either. being single can be REALLY fun!!
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my answer to you is just when a guy asks you out ... think long and hard before you say YES OR NO because if you think you may be doing that in the future ... DONT SAY YES !
sorry , hope this helps !!
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The next time you go out with a guy, trust that the relationship will last. It sounds to me like you have an internal fear that the guy will not stay with you. In result, you break things off. The old "I'll break his heart before he breaks mine."
There's nothing wrong with getting your heart hurt. It happens in life. It's a way of knowing that you loved someone.
Give someone a chance. If he ends up breaking up with you, things will be fine. Have a small "mourning" period for the relationship, then move on. This will make you a stronger individual in the long run. I wish you the best.
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Well i think you should ask him like out of no where or something and say"oh hun,well,um,do you think we'll even make it through a week cause everyboy i go out with is always breaking up with me in just like four to five days and it really makes meh feel sucky inside!I'm not comparing you or anything but i'm just wondering."Just tell him that i think it makes himtell the truth or summthing!Hope i helped!!!
Take care,
Kristine♥
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