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okay, ive known this guy for about nine years and weve been best friends and never got into one fight. People saiid that WE WERE LIKE cory and tapanga or that we would end uplike that but then one day i told 2 b people who he liked and he got real pissed at me and never forgave me and said go to hell but the thing was that i told like a million times how sorry i was and i rele like love this kid and then he put it on his pro and even told the girl he liked that he liked her and that got me mad.Then he even went out with her and still wouldnt forgive me. Then at my friends bat mitzva, he slow danced with me and said sorry but he still hate. All my friends tell me to get over him but i can b.c now al my friends love him and i rele miss him as a friend and its hard to forget everything we.ve be through together and idk wat to do pleze help!!
From julias friend ali!<3 xoxo
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Tell your friend that you miss his friendship. Do not bring love into it. Obviously when he told you who he liked, he expected it to stay between the two of you. He feels like you've betrayed his confidence. If you do get his friendship back, make sure to keep what's said between the two of you private unless he says otherwise.
Good luck.
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uuh..we all know that friendship involves respect..if you really love the guy,respect his decision..i know its very vey hard to lose a best friend..ive lost 0ne already..but if you really think about it, the fact that he slow danced you and asked sorry meant something..he still sees the friendship..though youre not as close anymore,the good memories youve had would never be erased anymore ryt?just stay cool and really try to learn from your previous mistakes..Ü go!
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Ok, I'm sorry to have to be the one to tell you this, but hate is one of the most powerful emotions around. Hate can drive people to do crazy things, one look at the middle east will prove that. How long has it been since he got mad at you? If this has been going on for over a year, chances are this is one of those powerful hatreds. However, if this has been less than a year, chances are the damage isn't irreversable. If this guy and the girl he liked are still going out, maybe you did him a favor by throwing his hole card in just a little earlier than he wanted. You forced him to tell her he likes her, which ended up with them going out. The best advice is this: Tell him how you REALLY feel about him. If you are absolutely crazy about him, tell him. If you just like him as a friend, tell him you miss him and his friendship. If you think you can't live without him...well, some guys don't take that too well. Some girl basically told me that the other day, and, um, yeah. Don't do that. Just tell him how you honestly feel, don't sugarcoat it, just play it straight. Don't get overemotional, don't get all weepy or clingy, cause weeping is for widows, and clinging is for dryer sheets. If you can look him straight in the face, into his eyes, and tell him honestly that you love and care about him, and he can still say that it changes nothing, he is probably one of the biggest idiots of all time, and he is definetly not worth YOUR time. Good luck with this guy, if its meant to be, its will be. Email me if you need any further help.
Best Wishes, Jordan-IronChefRogue1@aol.com or jordan.j.hunter@okstate.edu
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