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Best friend turned on me!!
Ok my best friend since 1st grade said i was a slut and she doesnt want to hang out with me because of that. I am still a virgin tho so i dont know why she said this. i just date a lot of guys because if i like them and they like me why do i need to get the name of a slut if i go out with them. she really hurt me and now we're not talking and i miss her a lot she knows THE BIGGEST secret of mine and shes going to throw our friendship away over she doesnt want to hang out with me cuz im a "slut" well i was always there for her and now shes not here for me i really need help on what to say to her to get my best friend back!! HELP PLEASE! i'll rate 5's!!
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I think that a true friend wouldn't think badly of you. Each person views things differently and a true friend would back you up on anything... right or wrong. Obviously your friend has issuses with some things you do but you need to work that out. A true friend will be there to congratulate when you make a good choice but will be there to hold you when you realized you made the wrong choice.
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Steph and Babe
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not your best friend..see like the question above...real friends do not talk behind your bakc. I know this hurts..you know the truth...to me she is so jealous that you are so popular with guys...that she is BEYOND jealous.
She does not want to be your friend..see she cannot deal with the fact that she's number tow in this friendship.
So...i know you have other friends..hang out with someone who REALLY cares and let the witch keep yapping.
am thinking she is the slut...
ps am betting your secret has already been told if she is spreading that kind of crap...also thinking she does not have any friends for everybody knows what kind of person she is.
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this may help... i date alot of guys too.. All my frinds used to call me a slut too. Im still a virgin as well.. I just talked to them and said that if they say that im a slut again.. they wont have anymore friends as well. They havent called me a slut since. But even though i date a lot of guys.. doesnt mean they have a right to call me or anyone that does that a slut. Sluts are people that sleep around and screw others. You didnt do that i hope so ur not a slut. Talk to her about it and tell her you dont sleep around.
i hope i helped.
Christine
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maybe she's affraid of what she thinks your getting yourself into. make sure she knows that you go into relationships with only good intentions. let her know you miss her friendship. it really sounds like she's upset about something else. tell her to just talk with her for a few minutes and you'll leave her alone. if she agrees let her know how important she is to you. good luck, hope i helped
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well u really have to talk to her about it. express what you are feeling and ask her why is she calling you a slut and tell her she really hurt your feelings and if you really are good friends you can forget about whatever is going through her mind, maybe u dated a guy she liked.. talk to her
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its hard i know.... the same thing happened to me.... and im gunna tell you its not gunna get better.... your still gunna miss her.... my best friend screwed me over last year when we were caught drinking and smoking weed and shit.... and she blamed the whole thing on me and said i forced her to... when in reality we kinda just both did it... and as much as i knew that she did that to me i couldnt hate her.... tell her how you feel.. thats basically all you can do... it will make you happier too if you knew that at least you tried to make the friendship work... tell her plain and simple that you miss her... i dont want to make you sad or anyhting but you should be aware now that things are gunna change... she called you a slut... i mean i could still be friends with ehr after that but i dont think id ever forget that no matter what.... just let her know how much tthat hurt... hope i could help
Kristi
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