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I met this guy at a lacrosse camp.. I thought he was really cool and everything and we were flirting and he asked me out and of course I said yes.. after that week I haven't seen him but ive talked him on the phone.. hes a total Jock and always plays sports.. sometimes i think he likes his sports better than me.. I really like him and I know he likes me too but I want to see him.. is that being selfish? should I explain it all to him? <3 smitten and confused
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When it come to guy's who like sports, getting his attention can be pretty difficult. My guy friends idea of bonding is sitting through an entire football game with maybe a sentence or to actually directed at one another. Guys respond differently in these situations, it would really make an impression on him if you showed an interest in the sport he likes, go see his games, even if it bores you to death. If you really like this guy get interested in his hobbies and he will get interested in you...guaranteed.
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i know how you feel i had a boyfriend that i thought was more into sports than me. you just gotta sit him down and talk to him about it. ask him to do things with you every once in a while. hope i helped out! -Jessica
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Well it is perfectly reasonable to want to see him. And i don't think it is selfish. Because he might be dating some one else. And it is hard to have a long term relationship. So tell him he should understand. Tell me how it goes **lauren** plzzz rate me
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It is not being selfish because hes your boyfriend. So he should like you more than the sports if he asked you out. You should ask him this question only if your comfortable with it. Its which do you like better me or your sports.
Love,
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wanting to see the kid doesnt make you selfish at all. Ask him to hang out.. if you dont whats the point of going out? If you guys talk on the phone thats the perfect oppurtunity to be like hey yo you wanna chill. LoL... well maybe not so ghettoish but just ASK him.. seriously go for it next time he calls be like can we hang out. Go to the movies, invite him to go to your house, anything!!! You guys can do sooooooo much.
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well if you know he likes you back...then that's really all the assurance you need- if the guy is really involved in sports it's because eh's going to have that his whole life, and there's no guarantee he's going to have you his whole life...that's probably why he focuses on that so much more- he probably knows it can get him to many places... it's not selfish that you want to see him but don't pressure him into things and telling you that he likes you more...because if he has a love for sports- there's nothing you can do about it except support him and if you want to see him...challenge him to a game or something someday- hang out and do somthing involved with sports..that way you get what you want, and he gets the best of both worlds...let him know how you feel if you don't agree with what i wrote above- but that might come off selfish if you say "i think you like your sports better than me" because he might say "yeah, well i do" ...so good luck ! :D
love elle <3
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Yea you should talk to him! its natural to want to talk to see your boyfriend and spend time with him! just explain to him that you want to spend more time with him! maybe you guys can play some sports together! hope i helped!
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ON the phone bring up yall meeting somewhere to see each other. Maybe like a bowling or skating place maybe the movies?
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No its not selfish and you should tell him that you want to see him and maybe you guys could go out on a date and during the date explain to him how you feel bout the sports thing cuz after all sports is always going to b there... but your not always going to b there and hopefully he'll realize that.
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