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Do I really need to have Instagram to be a director/writer?
Posted Saturday June 20 2020, 11:33 am
Okay so I’m 2021 I’ll be attending college and majoring in either film or writing. I just want some advice on this matter, do I really need to have a social media platform for this career field? It’s just very tiring for me to post a picture, hope it gets more than ten likes then get upset when it only gets 5 likes and a comment from a robot. I am not a fan of social media and I have deleted my account before but I was up for a part that required me to have it. (Didn’t get it, not enough followers and they wanted me to get tik tok and I refuse to have an app on my phone that’s owned by a communist country) I also only post 1 pic or a collage picture of pics a month. I am not a fan of social media and I only go on to post a pic and...
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My girlfriend words things which throw me off
Posted Friday June 19 2020, 10:17 pm
So I have been seeing my girlfriend for almost 1 and half years now. I was a single parent when i met her and we are what we think an amazing couple. Very alike yet still different in the right ways. Talk out almost any and all issues. She came into my life embracing my daughter and even planning days to spend and bond with her. Well covid 19 happened as we all know and my daughter for 2 months was stuck at her mothers since I was still working and going into work. Well over that time of quarantine my girlfriend moved in. All was really good but then my daughter was able to re enter living with us on shared time. Well my girlfriend over these past month and a half has been distant at times. We talked about it and me hoping they would still...
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My best friend is bisexual.
Posted Friday June 12 2020, 2:04 pm
I have been best friends with this girl for 3 years. We have had the best memories, she is the sweetest, most caring person I have ever came across in my life and I love her to death!
We got to know each other at work, we are both teachers. I was a 1st grade teacher and she was in Kindergarten. It was my first time as a 1st grade teacher. As silly as it sounds, we both wanted to work together and so I decided to try working in K for a year with her because we had the option to do that. (we live in an arab country btw and I am half American but she is pure arab)
After 1 year of knowing one another, we started working together on the 2nd year. We had the best year together, I love her so much! She is really my best best friend...
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How do I move on from this regret?
Posted Thursday June 11 2020, 3:49 pm
I am a 17 year old guy from India. In 12 years of my schooling, I didn't get to make a lot of friends although I had an opportunity. But still at that time I was going through a really tough time and I lost that opportunity. In my junior college I decided not to repeat the same mistake but still I have a bad luck. Due to my strict timetable and other classes I couldn't make friends there too (Although I did make some). But the friends which I made are not that close to me. Like we hang out but not that often. Besides it was a posh college and I lost the opportunity again. And the worst part is that I won't get admission in that college again due to low marks. This whole fact about almost no friends makes me regret and haunt me till today. H...
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Worried about my Sister and having Repulsive thoughts
Posted Tuesday June 9 2020, 7:03 pm
About me : M 22
So recently I've been having some really weird thoughts and idk if it's anxiety or fear or everything combined I'm incessantly worrying a lot about my mother and sister whenever i try to relax or when I'm trying to sleep i keep getting these thoughts where the people i don't like (scums that i have encountered in my life ) are trying to have their way with my mother and sister it's gotten so worse that this is the first thing that comes to my mind when i wake up and i just can't stop it and i try to be constantly busy in-order to avoid them and i never want this to come true and I'm afraid of these thoughts and idk what to do.
I know that this would never ever happen and yet I'm haunted by these thoughts in fea...
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Don't know what to do with my relationship
Posted Tuesday June 9 2020, 10:01 am
I currently am an undergrad student living with my boyfriend in New York state. I go to college here and am originally from NJ (about 3 hours away) I moved in with him once my school closed around March because of Covid and the day before my school closed we adopted a dog. I was volunteering there and met him first. Absolutely fell in love with him and I told my bf to come in and meet him (we has been discussing getting a dog for a bit). We ended up adopting him together. My bf paid the adoption fee and license since the apartment is in his name. However, this is where is gets confusing. After living with him for some time (this is the first time we've lived together) I started noticing attributes about him that I really don't like. It's no...
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How will I know what course I want to take
Posted Monday June 8 2020, 4:51 pm
Hi! I’ve been searching for free sites that gives advices and stumbled on your site.
I’m 16 years old and I live in the Philippines. I’ll be on senior high school on September and I have to choose what strand to take. However, I am so confused on what to take. I don’t know where i see myself in 5-10 years. I don’t know what’s my passion and what I love doing. I dont know what career do i want. I really don’t know and it bothers, it frustrates me a lot. Please help me find things out. I really appreciate it. Thank you so much!
sincerely,
julia.
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My mother favors my brother
Posted Monday June 8 2020, 8:55 am
I'm a 17 year old girl, and as long as I can remember my mother has been giving special treatment to my youngest brother. While my sister and my brother and I were disciplined regularly and given chores and strict guidelines, he was allowed to do as he pleased and often received gifts and was allowed to stay up later. Even now that we're all teenagers, he still has no chores, speaks to my mother however he pleases (and often with shocking rudeness that would earn anyone else a slap to the face and a week's grounding), and has no curfew for his electronics while the rest of us have to put away our phones at 6 o clock. Truthfully, I don't know what to do about the situation, if there's anything I even can do. Maybe it has to do with the rest ...
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Strain between parents relationship and part of it has to do with me
Posted Sunday June 7 2020, 4:24 am
I’m gonna try and keep this as short as possible but basically my parents have always had a rocky marriage with multiple explosive arguments they’ve refused to get a divorce and it’s been about 25 years of marriage together. My mom has her specific issues with my dad and my dad has specific issues with my mom. I love both my parents but i despise their relationship and how I’ve grown up for the past 20 years of my life watching them fight over less than real problems. My mom brought up with me that she hates how my dad says she has a ton of disagreements with her siblings but she really only doesn’t talk to one of her brothers because her brother’s son abused me. My father has no idea that this has occurred and is friendly with...
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How do I get my dad to love me?
Posted Saturday June 6 2020, 11:20 am
I am sixteen years old. my dad has never ever told me he loves me. He is always avoiding me, or when he doesn't it is only because he wants something.
how do I get him to love me? is it my fault that he doesn't?
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Husband and in-laws problem (Indian)
Posted Friday June 5 2020, 6:52 pm
Being the only child of my parents, I was reared up in a very gender neutral environment. My parents are very broad minded and liberal. They have never stopped me from doing anything in life. They are very encouraging and supportive. On the other hand, my in-laws are very Orthodox and selfish and male-chauvinistic.Its been a year now that I got married to their son and they are constantly trying to dictate over my life.They wants me to observe some Indian hindu religious rituals on daily basis.I made it clear once that I am a secular person and won't observe them. They got offended and rebuked me by saying "it's irrelevant what you believe and don't. You had rights over your faith system when unmarried. Now that you are married and the...
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Virginity
Posted Tuesday June 2 2020, 8:22 am
Can a girl lose her virginity though anal sex(yes or no)
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Family fued
Posted Monday June 1 2020, 4:04 am
Im in love with my mother and she is in love with me. We have had a relationship for 4 months now but i keep having doubt. What do you think?
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How do I get my annoying mom to back off?
Posted Thursday May 28 2020, 11:28 pm
Like the question states, I can't get my mom to back off. I still live and home and will probably be here until I graduate college (2 yrs) because of Covid-19. My mom always wants me to do stuff for her. Because I'm the most capable person in my home (lazy brother and equally lazy, freeloading cousins), I feel like she exploits me. She's wearing me out. I don't have a waking moment where this woman just lets me live. If you don't willingly do what she wants, she subtly makes you feel bad. I helped my brother with his schoolwork since the pandemic on top of my workload, I do chores, I help her out, but that's not enough for her. I could go on and on here. It's so bad, that I'm reluctantly trying to get into med school or anything else post-g...
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My friend hasn’t talked to me in 2 months and I don’t know what to do
Posted Wednesday May 27 2020, 7:01 pm
In the beginning of April, my friend dropped me out of nowhere with no explanation. Within the first few days, I noticed something was up so I texted him about it and he didn’t respond. Soon enough he started to cut me off from almost all of his social media. I still saw him interacting with the other people in my friend group so I knew that he only had a problem with me. This bothered me a lot because, even though I didn’t know why he cut me off, I knew I hurt him and I felt so guilty for making him feel this way. Eventually weeks went by and I began to lose hope that we were gonna talk again. My 18th birthday was coming up and I was hoping to hear from him. But to my own mistake, I got my hopes up and he ended up not telling me anythi...
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How do I deal with bullying?
Posted Wednesday May 27 2020, 12:58 pm
I am a 17 year old boy from India. In my school I had a classmate whom I didn't get along so well. Even today after two years of graduating out of school, he still continues to persist me at reunions. The thing is he still bullies me because I don't have the confidence to go up and talk to girls. I mean he has better social life than me. I am trying to overcome that anxiety though. With that point he continuously roasts me in front of everyone. But if I give back or retaliate all he says is this- 'No one is talking to you'. This makes me even more pissed. And plus I can't find any weak spot of his to roast him back. I am fed up. I literally see his face and I am so disgusted. And plus nobody will be ready to support me. How do I deal with him alone? I need your advice.
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Is 16 and 19 too big an age gap?
Posted Tuesday May 26 2020, 11:18 pm
OK, I've been friends with this girl on social media for a few months, and am contemplating starting a long-distance relationship with her (I posted a question on here about it not so long ago), as we're in two different countries. The 2 of us are very similar people, with the same interests, and similar personalities. But one of the things that kind of puts me off starting a relationship is the age gap- I'm only 16, and she's 19. I'm not planning to do anything sexual or anything, but am just kind of worried that even if she is interested in me the same way I'm interested in her, that the age will throw her off. Apart from the age difference, we're very similar people and I wouldn't want to mess up the friendship I have with her already by...
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I am in a secret relationship that my mom doesnt want me to be in
Posted Tuesday May 26 2020, 8:17 am
So, Ive been with this guy for a few months now. He’s great, and I love him so much. He is my first boyfriend. Last year ,my mom found out about this, and we broke up for a while. Then we eventually got back together because we were in the same school. Im now back in keeping things private and suggested that we should just have an open relationship so that we can just figure out if this is really for us or not. The problem is, I don’t wanna hurt my mom anymore. She was really mad and hurt about us and she even thought about shutting me out from the family. I don’t want anyone to be in that mess anymore. I’m at a point where i regret everything. I should’ve just let him go long ago, but I didn’t. I was really invested in him and ...
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Verbally abusive narcissist father?
Posted Monday May 25 2020, 2:57 pm
For year’s iv’e thought my father has been verbally abusive to me our relationship has never been the way a father daughter’s relationship should be recently iv’e thought he is a narcissist father in public in front of people he act’s like the perfect father everything is fine but behind closed door’s that isn’t the case he has told me “I’ve got no brain” “I’m going to end up on the unemployment line and on food stamp’s” “He doesn’t care if he hurt’s me as long as he get’s his point across” “I’m losing at life” He like’s to put the blame on me make thing’s seem like they’re always my fault he rarely admit’s when he’s wrong he has also lifted up the table while i was eating dinner and got...
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Feeling empty. Can't stop crying.
Posted Sunday May 24 2020, 1:07 am
Where do I begin. I have been single since I was 21 (I am now 29). There has been no prospects and not for the lack of trying. My life feels empty.
It started valentines day. Usually I am sad. This year.. there was no feelings. Nothing. Empty. Dark.
Today I realized how I have lost hope.. in love, in ever having a family. My life feels empty and I feel like I don't have anything to look forward too.
My therapist says she doesn't think that my story is over, and that I will find someone, she has hope for me. I just don't know how to see that hope for myself. I have been crying for 8 hours on and off. I don't want to end life..and never would but I don't know how to live like this when all is ho...
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