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I want to share my story


Posted Monday August 3 2020, 2:13 pm

I have a story that I want to share with everyone, but I don't know where to find forums to do that, or where to submit them. See, I did LSD a few years ago while I was also on Lithium. I looked at message boards and stuff and a lot of people had shared their horror stories of mixing the two, but I didn't listen because there were also a few stories where they wound up being okay. I feel like I should share my experience with people because I am mentally screwed indefinitely as a result and I don't want this to happen to anyone else. I can't remember the site I visited back then. Thank you in advance.

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Covid-19: What can I do to keep from going Stir Crazy?


Posted Friday July 31 2020, 3:29 pm

I live in a house with an 85-year-old who had cancer surgery in March and a 64-year-old mother, a brother in his 30's and a small child. I have been very careful to wear a mask and gloves and obey for the past 5 months every health stipulation to do with Covid-19.

Not to get political because the disease is not a political thing but in the U.S. they've rushed things in some states and the president hasn't helped by denying the existance of it at first and not trusting the experts like Fauci.

One of the things that has led to surge of cases is reopening bars, night clubs and virtually every other business you can think of in some areas. Doing so has resulted in spike of cases and some deaths.

Me...

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How to date?


Posted Friday July 31 2020, 2:07 am

Alright I just want to say I have an extremely hard time meeting guys, at the moment I do not have friends and have always struggled with friendships. However I have questions, how can I meet guys since I am in my 30's? A guy with substance, a respectable guy? I am in the process of working on myself and I have always had a very time meeting serious guys. Most guys I meet aren't serious or flake out. It's very stressful and I have lost hope. What can I do? Lastly, I want to share a quick story about a recent incident with a guy I met. I met this guy through a meet up and he remembers me in the past meet up. With him remembering me from a past meet up I was excited- I thought it was funny he remembered me in the past. From talking to him at ...

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private question to Solidadvice4teens


Posted Thursday July 30 2020, 9:05 pm

i didn't like your comment on my question on how to get someone out of your life i really don't want to be asscoiated with people like that gil i mentioned plus i am only going one day there and she goes four days as usual but i do plan on parting from that school later in the future so i hope you can get this as a private question.

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how to get someone out of your life ?


Posted Monday July 27 2020, 8:21 pm

two years ago i have been going to a place that is like a school for adults with special needs and last year i have been asscoiated with some girl who is two years older than me but doesn't act it and she is also stubborn and when i told her that i did not want to see stuff on her phone she tried to correct me with yeah you do and i had to put up with her alot and when she and her mom rhode with me and my mom she tried to get me to listen to a cd that i did not want to listen to and she asked me way too many questions and some that were stupid about meeting everyone in hr family and i do not want to put up with her forever is there way to remove this person from my life ?

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Dating during Quarantine


Posted Sunday July 26 2020, 10:19 am

I have been talking to this guy for 4 months over quarantine and we met recently. I had a great time on our first date and we recently went on our second date, which was kayaking. I really like him and had a great time but something has been bothering me... He told me over text that he was the type of guy to always ask permission to kiss or touch a girl in anyway because of how respectful he is. He knows that I really liked that about him. When we went on our second date he had asked me how i felt about a guy slyly grabbing my hand. I said thats fine as long as you don't pull any sly moves with me...
The date goes on and we are waiting for our kayake. He knew I was scared because i've never been so he put his hand around my lower wai...

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Guilt tripping mom


Posted Sunday July 19 2020, 9:42 pm

I am a 28years old married woman and the only child to my parents. I am very close to my parents, especially my mom used to be my whole world before I got married. Things have changed a little bit now as I spend all the time with my husband in abroad far away from my friends, relatives and parents. My parents have a faulty marriage. Initially after their marriage, mom was abused and ill-treated by my dad and his family (typical Indian Joint family) but after my birth my parents moves to another city (close to my material grandfather's family and their relatives) due to my dad's office posting and started as a nuclear family. Now my mom got entangled by her parents and brothers family issues. They used to involve her on every family related ...

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My mom wants me to take the SAT at the epicenter of the virus


Posted Sunday July 19 2020, 1:35 pm

Okay so I’m 17 and I’ve already taken the SAT and got 990. So right after I took the test I went to go stay with my father in a different state. Right when I left it was spring break so I was shocked when I found out that my school had shut down and I had to take class online. I didn’t really mind it though. Well my mother has been hassling next to take the SAT again but I’ve told her that Florida wasn’t doing it. My dad he’s a right wing guy so he understands why they aren’t giving it out but my mom called me every day to make sure that I was checking. Then she contracted the corona virus and she’s had it for almost a month now. She wants me to come home but I have asthma and that wouldn’t be safe for me. But because Flor...

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This guy is always selling himself to me


Posted Sunday July 19 2020, 2:29 am

This man i met from tinder is regularly video chatting with me to keep me company in the quarantine and we get along well. But he does this strange thing, he is always telling me how great he is... to the point where i get uncomfortable.

He says things like “Every girl that has ever left me always came back to see if we could try it again but i don’t see any point in taking someone back who took me for granted”
“My ex keeps video chatting me and showing me her breasts and her butt and her vagina and all i ask is ‘how is your mom doing?’ “
“I take care of my friends so well to the point where if one of my friends tells me he is going through a financial struggle, i would take a GROUP of my frien...

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Pressure of late adolescence


Posted Saturday July 18 2020, 2:23 am

I am days away from reaching 18 years of age. It’s very nervewrecking because it’m almost in my last stage of adolescence. I know that I still have a lot more to learn, but for the last few days, I feel very sad. Changes will happen for the better, but I feel like it’s overwhelming me more and more each day. My family always keep telling me to “act like a traditional lady” and they always splan everything out for me. I get that it’s part of our culture to appeal and create a good image as a lady, but to me, it’s a bit weird and it sounds like I’m born to impress people. I am willing to grow as a person that I know I will be, and not the person people want me to become. It has taken a toll on me to the point where I stoppe...

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best way to live


Posted Wednesday July 15 2020, 2:07 pm

How can I live long during this pandemic Covid-19?

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Vibrator: I’m of a legal Drinking age and I’m to shy to go into a sex shop Take 2


Posted Monday July 13 2020, 2:37 pm

I’ll start by saying that I am of a legal drinking age. But I’ve never done ANYTHING sexually. Other then with my own hand. So this is embarrassing please be nice. With that being said I want a vibrator but I’m embarrassed to go in to an adult store and say I want a vibrator. I know I could order one but I don’t want one of parents getting it. Because sometimes they don’t pay attention to who’s stuff they are opening. Should I just ask my mom for help or just buck up and go get one? Like if your a mom would you want your daughter coming to you asking for a vibrator or would you rather not know? If you would say to ask her how would I even bring it up? If your wondering my mom is pretty cool but I know when my sister told her how...

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Vibrator: I’m of a legal Drinking age and I’m to shy to go into a sex shop


Posted Monday July 13 2020, 4:58 am

Ok super embarrassed to ask but don’t know what to do. I want to get a vibrator because I’m tired of my hand. However, I am slightly embarrassed to go to a sex shop and ask for a vibrator. Would it be weird to talk to my mom about it? Like if your a mom would you want your daughter to ask for your help to get a vibrator or for her to just go get one? The sad part of all this is I’m of a legal Drinking age and I’m to shy to go into a sex shop.

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Gatecrasher


Posted Thursday July 9 2020, 5:47 pm

I am a 17 male. Every year my close friend from Switzerland comes to India and everyone (his friends) goes to his house to meet him. But there's a couple of people including a girl. They do not seem to enjoy my company. And unfortunately they have a quite high social standing. I mean the girl has a lot of contacts. Besides when we meet she has a huge say in whatever we do. So I cannot lock horns with her. Basically she's a mean girl. She basically ruled the high school I used to go to. I used to be a good friend of her but God knows what happened. I used to get invited when he came back the first time. The second time I wasn't called and they made a text group without me. She thinks taunting and teasing me is her inherent right. In other wo...

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Should I continue our sexual relationship or run far away?


Posted Monday July 6 2020, 7:21 pm

In April, I met this guy on Tinder. I’m 22. He’s 23. He told me he was on the app looking for a friend with benefits. I was looking for a boyfriend. But at the same time I’m not in any rush. He consistently messaged and video chatted for 2 months. After a while he said that he changed his mind. He deleted the app. That he wanted to be my boyfriend in the near future. We finally met in person, went on two amazing dates, then he pressured/guilted me into sex with him on our 3rd date. He said,

“If we both want each other, why aren’t we having sex? You’re playing games. I won’t pressure you to do anything you don’t want to do, but I don’t understand why we can’t have sex. If we stop talking today, I’d have l...

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My family think I need therapy now that I'm into women.


Posted Saturday July 4 2020, 4:42 pm

I'm 30/F. A year ago, I was released from prison after spending five years locked up. Before my prison stint, I'd never been into women sexually, but during my time there I entered into a relationship with a fellow inmate. Since my release, I'm still into women and have virtually no interest in being with a guy. My family haven't exactly been supportive. They say my time away has messed with my head and I need therapy. But if I'm okay with this, why shouldn't I continue dating women? So what if I wasn't exactly born this way? What do you all think about this? Am I making a mistake here?

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Female bully


Posted Tuesday June 30 2020, 5:00 pm


I am a 17 year old boy. In school I used to like a girl. But she didn't reciprocate the same feelings for me. And strangely I was okay with it. I was confused as I was going through a bad phase. Also I saw her as my motivation. When College started (We both were in same college) I didn't want to lose her. So I made attempts to stay by her but no use. I eventually gave up and moved on When my friend came from abroad (he and she are best friends) my best friend called me and my friend (who is also my neighbour and we all were in same school) she taunted and teased me. I discussed this with my friend and he said that she is socially powerful and she has contacts. He said the only way to settle this is to patch up with her and be friend...

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Confused and scared


Posted Tuesday June 30 2020, 12:42 pm

Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I caught him cheating on me several times before we reached our 3rd year together. And now we are in a long distance relationship, and I just found out now that he is being bullied as chickboy with his friends on their groupchat and i jumped into a conclusion that maybe he had a fling with his classmate (girl) 1 year ago? Should I still be with him? We are already planning for our future and both our families are in good terms already. He is responsible in many ways and I can feel that he loves and cares for me but I can also feel the fear inside me.

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I don't think I can keep a promise to my bf


Posted Wednesday June 24 2020, 12:04 am

A few weeks ago my boyfriend and I got into a fight about me going back to work, because he's worried about the risk from COVID-19 and I work in a hospital. We eventually reached an agreement and I promised him I'd stay safe, let him know about my shifts, immediately stop working if my hospital admitted a case, and immediately stop working if the virus spread rates started getting too high. The cases are "too high" now, and he wants me to stop working and hold to my promise, but if I do it now, then I'll lose my job because prior to all this, I hadn't worked in 3 months due to the lockdown and wanting to keep my parents safe. He says he can't trust me anymore because I can't keep my promise, and I said I never should have had to p...

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Is it bad to only like Bisexual woman?


Posted Tuesday June 23 2020, 11:34 pm

Im a trans-male and i am straight. But i am not attracted to straight girls and i like the personality of bi girls. I do not want to fetish Bisexual women but i just would like to only date bisexual girls. Straight women for me "act different" and i am not attracted to that. Im sorry if I am being rude to bisexual women but i just need to know if its okay to only be attracted to bisexual girls. Thank you

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