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I’m I want to give my bf a boner without doing something crzy
Posted Saturday January 6 2018, 12:58 am
I am 14 and I want to give my boyfriend a boner. I’ve sat on his lap, made out with him and everything and I have never seen a boner. Help!
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I’m finally ready for a relationship but?
Posted Wednesday January 3 2018, 2:35 pm
I say this a lot but I honestly think I’m finally ready to have a relationship (I’m 19 and still never been in one). The only problem is if you’ve seen my previous questions I’ve had serious anxiety around attractive guys. I’m introverted and socially awkward in general, no matter who you are whether we’ve been friends for a long time or not. If we talk I’m pro at giving awkward silences they’re not awkward for me but i can tell it’s awkward for the person talking to me cause they try to continue the convo but I don’t really have much to say (especially if I don’t know you). Sometimes I’ll have days where I just won’t talk if we’re in the car cause there’s nothing to say. I can talk to my family just fine (only...
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Posted Saturday December 30 2017, 10:12 pm
My boyfriend told me I don’t know how you got into me, don’t know how you got my attention the other day as we’ve only been together for few weeks. He’s a nice boy. We get along well. He also told me , he liked me from day one and he said to himself I will make her mine. Guys, what do I understand here? Explain please? He’s 23 and I’m 21. Many thanks
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Boyfriend said you’re my soulmate?!
Posted Saturday December 30 2017, 9:14 pm
Hi, been dating for a few months but known for more than a year. In our late 20’s. But I feel and he feels as well we’re getting deeper in our relationship. However, when we first started dating he said, ‘it’s like you’re my soulmate.’ He loves me and I love him. He says he adores me. But when he mentioned soulmate what did he mean by that? Thanks all!
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Posted Sunday December 24 2017, 9:13 pm
Right, could you guys explain when a friend says he don’t know when he’s asked if he loves his girlfriend. We’re good friends. Lately he’s been having a bit of a problem in his relationship as he don’t seem to be into her anymore. The only fact I’m thinking he’s still with her is that they have a 2 year old boy together plus they live together. I’d like to help him and I asked him do you love her, do you still love her, he replied he don’t know, I said either yes or no mate?! I think he has a sympathy towards her because they have a young kid together. I want him to be happy as he’s looks miserable plus few of my other friends like him and he’s a good lad overall. Any advice please?! Do you guys reckon he’s fallen ou...
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Doesn't love me back
Posted Sunday December 24 2017, 10:54 am
So I'm going to sound completely crazy, but stay with me. I hypothetically have a crush who didn't like me back. The chemical formula for love is as follows: dopamine, seratonin, and oxytocin. This could be created in a lab, though an overdose in the substance would result in insanity. So if I got a hold of these substances all together, and caused someone to drink it in the correct amount so they don't lose their head, could I potentially create the same effect as a love potion? If so, how may I go about doing this? I've thought about putting it in their drink or on their food perhaps, though it would look really creepy if I was caught pouring random substances onto someones things. Any responses?
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Interacial and interfaith dating...
Posted Friday December 22 2017, 7:18 pm
So I'm a 14 year old girl, and I know it sounds ridiculous to say this at my age, but I really think I've found the one. He treats me like I'm an absolute goddess, supports my dreams in life, and we have so much in common and I'm just really attracted to him and his personality. We've been dating for months now and everyone at our High school knows (mostly bc he shows me off constantly lol) except our families. We hang out after school when we stay late for "help in a class."
So I'm an Arab American-Syrian from my dad's side and Palestinian from my mom's side to be exact. We're also Catholic. He's 100% Russian and a Jew. See how this is a tricky situation?
So we've both discussed anxiety over telling ...
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Is it normal to miss someone youve never met?
Posted Friday December 22 2017, 2:51 pm
Theres this guy, 17m, named Grant and weve never met but I, 17f, miss him more than I probably should. He does this thing where he leaves me on open (on snapchat) to "assert his dominance" as he likes to call it and ive been grounded for a few months so i rarely talk to him so i think thats why i miss him. Im pretty sure he doesnt like me back but i cant help how i feel. Is it normal to want and miss him? How do i stop since he more than likely doesn't feel the same?
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How do i unlike someone?
Posted Friday December 22 2017, 2:46 pm
There is this dude that ive really liked for like 3 months but hes reallyyyyy bad for me and i know this. I see him everyday after school and no matter how mad I am, the second i see him i suddenly forget i was mad and then spend the rest of the day hating myself for it. When I have my phone we talk and I cant help myself from going back and I honestly dont know what to do. Im a 17f and hes a 16m. Please help me get out of this BS. No matter how much I tell myself to feel different I cant.
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Why do I always fall for guys who hurt me?
Posted Friday December 22 2017, 2:42 pm
I had been "talking", well i thought we were talking, to this dude that I really like and then it turns out he was having sex with every girl under the sun and sexting all sorts of girls. I found out he cheated on his ex after he told me she was the one who was messing around behind his back. So he was lying and messing with other girls but was leading me on and i STILL like him. Why do I like him still? How do i get out of this vicious cycle with this particular guy?
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My boyfriend’s mom
Posted Thursday December 21 2017, 8:03 am
This is going to be a piggyback question off of one that I recently asked about my boyfriend. I don’t remember what I called it but it was about his mom losing her job, it’s kind of the relevant but when the people that answered that question before read this and say that they are having déjà vu, they kind of are.
So, one day I was spending the night at my boyfriends house. That morning after we woke up, he got a phone call which was a job offer that he really wanted. So after we talked a little and I congratulated him, he said he wanted to go to breakfast at his favorite place. So we went downstairs to leave and he walked into the living room and I heard him talking to his mom telling her that he got this job. When he...
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Trying to understand my Boyfriend
Posted Sunday December 17 2017, 1:48 pm
We both are 28 and only been dating for a few months but known each other for a year. It’s just that when he gave me a birthday card and Christmas card he put, “To my lovely and my name” and he puts, “ From, your boyfriend and his name” instead of writing simple. Now, writing to my and your boyfriend does these concept have a possessive meaning or trying to say,”you’re mine or something or I own you? Why would he say it like that instead of from and to and adding the name? He does love me like crazy. I also know he’s a possessive boy but in a good way. Thank you all
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My Boyfriend Has "Old Women Fetish"
Posted Friday December 15 2017, 1:19 pm
I found out that my boyfriend was texting old women (late 40's to 50's) and other women who were at least 8 years older than him. He's 21 and I'm 20. So of course, he basically fucks them. It was indeed cheating.
But it never hurt me coz duh I'm much younger, smart, I'm a triathlete, top in our school, pretty and I'm quite popular in the city.
My concern is that, I felt really weird and disgusted that from all of the girls he could on me with, why with women much older than he is. Last night, I've snooped on his phone and saw a 56ish women messaged him asking to meet up again and little did I know he denied having a girlfriend. The women was oh my god, my grandma was far better-looking than her.
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He has been hurt really bad and its getting to me
Posted Thursday December 14 2017, 7:14 am
Hi 18/F and my bf is 27. I know this is a huge age gap but that's not the problem. My bf was in a really bad relationship a few years back. It lasted about 4 years but it was so baf he used drugs to get rid of his feelings and he was emotionally abused by his father alot. My heart is really small and I always try not hurting other people. I try to give him the TLC he needs but he shuts me out as soon as we're not togheter. I know this was going to happen yet I cept going. Sometimes he makes me really sad and he doesn't realise how hard its on me. He always posted pics of his ex and said cute things but he doesn't even puts up a status for me on whatsapp .. its really getting to me .. please help ..
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Age difference
Posted Thursday December 14 2017, 4:55 am
23/f
So I'm a flight attendant. Me and my ex broke up a couple months ago.
I'm now out of a complicated, stressful, unhealthy relationship and I'd like to thank everyone who helped me out on here :)
Ive been on a few dates here and there.
Now a pilot has asked me out. He's 33 and I'm 23. That's a 10 year age gap. I talked to my friends, coworkers and even my dad. My friends and coworkers have told me to at least go out to dinner and see if I even have a connection with him. My dad told me to be careful if I do decide to date him.
Makes sense. I've heard my fair share of cheating pilots lol.
Is 10 years too much of a gap? Am I over thinking? He's cool so far. But it ma...
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Mom over Girlfriend.
Posted Saturday December 9 2017, 2:47 pm
Hello. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. I am 23 and he is 24. I've been wanting him to propose for a good while now but lately I've been having doubts about even wanting to take that step with him anymore. The reason? His mother.
I love that he is close to his mom, I love that he respects his mom, that is not why I'm here to say that he should respect me and love me more but I think his love and respect for her exceeds what he holds for me, a great amount. My dad said he was close to his mom but when he married my mom, she became the priority to him. I know that it could be different for every man but I always feel like I'm in dead last place to him.
First example, his mom worked at this ...
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Boyfriend seems little possessive, not sure!
Posted Saturday December 9 2017, 9:37 am
Hello, my Boyfriend keeps addressing me by, ‘my lovely’ and adds my name, for example ‘my lovely Ann’ and he also writes, ‘from Your boyfriend’ these are especially on the occasion cards and text messages. He just uses ‘your’ boyfriend on the cards at the end and you are ‘my’ Ann on the messages and cards. Why is it? Is he just being possessive in a good way? Now, we’ve been together for only few months but known for a year and before we started to go out he said he liked me from a day one and as the day went by he thought to himself I will make this girl mine, she will be mine one day. What’s he saying? Why did he think that? Was he falling for me already?? We do love each other so much and I’m madly in love with ...
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Boyfriend ostracized
Posted Thursday December 7 2017, 5:39 pm
I'm a Junior in High school. I have a bf who most people don't like and spread rumors about. Nobody talks to him and think he's weird for being an introverted person that wears all black, even going as far to spread a rumor he was going to shoot up the school (the police got involved with that one!) and that he's a serial killer. It hurts me to see him isolated, not only as his girlfriend but as someone who knows he's a good person.
For example, this Freshman girl was falling into a state of suicide-level depression because of some issues in her home life, and she was worried that everybody secretly hated her and believed no one would care if she were dead. My boyfriend got the kids in her grade along with people who ...
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friend is not happy recently!
Posted Tuesday December 5 2017, 1:41 pm
They've been together for 3 years and have a little boy together but he's not happy as she's being selfish and hypocrite lately. they live together but he's thinking of breaking up and I think he's falling out of love with her. he's my very best friend and he talks to me. now, I've asked him do you love her, do you STILL LOVE her and he says he DON'T KNOW, which I don't understand, I mean if he still loves her he should easily say YES but not I don't know, I'm trying to help him but when he says he don't know if he still loves her or not, that will be hard. guys, what do you reckon? he don't know means he still loves her or is he just hanging on to her?
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how to support sad boyfriend?
Posted Monday December 4 2017, 4:43 pm
how do I support and help my boyfriend who is sad and depressed. he says he's very depressed because little things is not going right in his life. we've been together for few months but known for a year. he's a good boyfriend plus we normally talk everyday but in a few days certain things has failed so he says he don't feel like texting or talking and he hardly communicates with me and I'm his girlfriend instead I'd have to initiate the conversation but he barely talks considering he's chatty boy. how do I support him? should I stop texting him more often? we love each other very much. I just want him back like he used to. we're both in our early 30's. please could I have short and simple answers? thank you all
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