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Can fasting reverse type 2 diabetes?


Posted Friday April 9 2021, 6:22 am

I am having Type 2 diabetes. Let me know whether fasting can cure type 2 diabetes.

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advice fr married man who cheated or “other woman” only please


Posted Thursday April 8 2021, 2:47 pm

I am a 40 something year old female, recently divorced. I met a married man through work. I did not work with him but he worked for a vendor we bought supplies from. We became friends and he told me about his family and I knew he was married with children at home. I’m not sure how it happened but our friendship turned into a flirting relationship. He started texting only during the day and never on the weekends. We begin exchanging photos and even Sexting and before long hurting turn into a physical relationship. I never had any expectation of him to leave his wife and we really never discussed her. He is six years younger than me and I’m recently divorced so for me, this was just a good time. The affair lasted about nine months and I w...

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I want to end a toxic friendship but am stuck. Urgent


Posted Thursday April 8 2021, 1:38 am

My bestfriend left in 10th grade and I got into a group of friends it was fine for a while until I felt like I was getting more and more picked on. From getting my head pushed, grabbing my shoes and I ran after them with my socks wet, grabbing my phone and texting people without my permission, always being the target and more. Now I am in 12 grade and am so happy that we are staying home cause in 11th grade I would have mental breakdowns every week cause I felt so lost and stuck cause the person who was the key to all of this knew I have social anxiety and cant just up and leave to a different friend group so I felt like this person was taking advantage of that. I told myself that I would wait until graduation and cut them off but now I fee...

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I dread seeing my friend every day. What should I do?


Posted Wednesday April 7 2021, 8:44 am

Hello. I am 17 and a female. I'm reaching a point where I do not know what to do in this friendship that I'm in anymore. She is 18. I dread seeing her everyday. It's a long distance friendship, so it would be quite easy to break off. She's very clingy and possessive, while I am distant and need time alone.
I have known her for around 3 years. She will say things like, "I get out of bed for you", or, "you will never find a friend like me again." She has attempted for those 3 years to get me to be in a serious relationship with her even though I am obviously uncomfortable and decline her advances. I am not interested in the same gender, and I am not interested in her either. She also needs constant reassurance that ...

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Something was stuck in my teeth for a month


Posted Saturday April 3 2021, 3:05 pm

Yes this is gross . I got a part of of a kernel popcorn stuck in my teeth. I was eating then I realized that the brown part of the corn kept getting tuck in my teeth so I stopped eating and brush my teeth.
I then flossed and saw all the food remains but I still felt discomfort in my mouth. I began flossing before and after brushing my teeth but no improvements. With my tongue I could feel something but when I looked I didn't see anything. At first I thought I had damaged my gum and it will heal . Then last night I began to investigate further and eventually I got the stuff out. Now I am very concern . I have a minute hole in my gum and I have been brushing and salt water rinses to avoid sugars etc from staying there. I'm not sure why else to do . I really don't want bad teeth .

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Mother forcing catholicism on me


Posted Friday April 2 2021, 11:09 pm

Hi,

I'm 25 years old, and I was raised catholic my entire life. I do not consider myself to be practicing, and i've struggled with my faith in the religion for a very long time now. But the thing is, I only went to church just to please my mom... I've tried telling her many times that I don't want to lie anymore and be dishonest in a church but she just doesn't seem to get it. I respect her religious views and i just wish she would respect my choices but she's doesn't get it. I feel like she's basing my humanity on my faith. Despite there being many good qualities to me, she doesn't see that at all and to her being religious trumps everything. Her not accepting me for who i am has hurt me, and me not being religious has hurt...

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Should I get an abortion?


Posted Thursday April 1 2021, 5:19 am

I'm a 24 yr old female in desperate need of advice. I found out this past weekend that I'm pregnant (5 weeks) and I've been stressing ever since. I'm very torn on what decision to make and when I try to outweigh the pros/cons I feel like the best decision would be abortion. I have an almost 3 yr old that I'm trying to be the best mom for, I've struggled with depression since I was pregnant with her and I just feel as though it'd be unfair to have another child when I'm not where I want to be in life. I need emotional and financial stability and splitting myself more would not be ideal. My big hesitation comes from a fear of what ifs and/or regretting my decision. As well as this overwhelming feeling of guilt..probably because I don't really...

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Am I depressed or overreacting?


Posted Sunday March 28 2021, 7:39 pm

I'm 15 and a sophomore in high school, and this whole time, I felt like the pandemic never really affected me this entire time, but recently I saw a video and in that video a Chinese woman, like me, was saying how she was actually really depressed in high school and never realized, and it made me think. After a few months of the pandemic, I think, is when it really started. I never want to get out of bed in the mornings, but I don't want to go to sleep at night. I stay up really late because I don't want to wake up the next day. I don't want to play tennis or practice the piano or hang out with my best friend. I didn't really keep in contact with any of my school friends except for my best friend who lives down the street. She sometimes dra...

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Is it weird that I actually want to be grounded?


Posted Sunday March 28 2021, 6:05 pm

Hi. I'm a 16 y/o girl. I guess you could say I'm generally a pretty good kid. I've never been in any major trouble. So, I've never been grounded. Most of my friends, on the other hand, have been grounded at least once in their lives. I'm actually curious as to what it's like. Like, to the degree that I find myself daydreaming about what I could do to get myself grounded so I can finally find out. Am I weird for doing this? I'm sure my friends would think I'm psycho. What do you think?

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How to find out if multiple social media accounts are the same person?


Posted Thursday March 25 2021, 2:01 pm

Now, I've had a suspicion for a while that this person has been contacting me on multiple accounts under different names and personas (primarily because of similar grammatical styles and similar general account topics), but I'm not 100% sure.

Originally, I was going to see if there was a way of finding out if two IP addresses matched but I couldn't find anything for that, so then I came across a couple of people finders (e.g. PeekYou, and Truthfinder) but you have to pay to find out the person's social media profiles- the most new information I've got from any of those sites for free was the person's religion and political affiliation, but I'm interested in trying to work out if this person is behind multiple accounts across ...

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teenage granddaughter shutting me out suddenly


Posted Monday March 22 2021, 5:35 pm

My soon to be 13 year old granddaughter who I had a very close relationship, has in the last months not returned my text messages and seems to not want to spend time with me. Her father, my son, says she is into her friends and phone, which I totally understand, but totally shutting me out of her life is hurtful. What should I do?

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I'm not sure if I'm doing something wrong


Posted Monday March 15 2021, 9:43 pm

I don't normally complain like this but this was the first time I'd ever asked for personal advice. Ok so I have a nice family well, they're nice most of the time. It's been a while since this started but my dad has been really toxic lately. It's sometimes for silly reasons but I feel it's gotten out of control. When I rearranged the furniture in my room a little bit today, my dad got completely mad at me. He said I was being really irritating and would take my room away. I don't want that to happen. And that's not the only thing. He also tells me that I'm lacking common sense and shouts at me for no reason. I know I'm NOT lacking common sense. I always feel really depressed. He compares me and my sister to other kids and tells us that we'r...

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I’m not sure whether to leave him or keep him at arms distance


Posted Monday March 15 2021, 12:52 pm

I have been dating this man for 7 months now. But it doesn’t feel like that long because we don’t see each other very often. About once a week throughout this whole time. He told me that his intentions with me are to be in a relationship. He also told me I’m his favorite woman out of everyone he’s dating and he does special things for me and no one else, the other women are just sex.

My problem is not that he’s with other women. My problem is that i feel like he doesn’t like me as much as i like him. I’m afraid “I love you” will slip out of my mouth before he says it to me. And i will feel like i care the most. Which has always hurt me in the past, and those relationships have ended because I’ve become cl...

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Yellowish chunks in semen when I ejaculate?


Posted Sunday March 14 2021, 6:09 am

I’m not sexually active or anything, but when I masturbate, sometimes there are yellowish chunks that come out when I ejaculate. These tend to have a stronger smell than semen usually does- does anyone know what this is? Should I see a doctor? I’m a 17 year old guy if that helps

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Attend a funeral during covid


Posted Saturday March 13 2021, 1:41 pm

My mom just died and plans are underway for a church service for her. Given the corona virus, I can't say that I'm too keen on hanging out with a bunch of people in a church. I would imagine that there's be lots of crying and hugging involved. I also live with an old man that will certainly die if I catch it and end up giving it to him. I smoke a lot, so I might die myself. Also, I'm an empath and can absorb other people's emotions and feel them as my own. This is already very painful for me and that's just MY emotions. Let alone also feeling the emotions of others. Which can be overwhelming. I don't really know how tough I can be. But I really don't want to be in that environment. Not going I feel would be disrespectful to my mom. But then...

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My ex/ friend is starting to make me uncomfortable. 17M


Posted Friday March 5 2021, 10:48 pm

For me, I've always had issues from telling crushes apart from just idk appreciating someone? Well a few months ago It turned out a friend, which I've known for a few years at this point and had an "I like her, no I don't" mentality about her, that she liked me and a close friend pushed me to try it out, so we did. It was very awkward and it turned out I didn't like her so I stopped it after a few weeks. (Bearing in mind the furthest we went was holding hands.) But now she constantly texts me things like "are you okay" if I don't reply to the group chat for a little bit, then will rant to my other friend about me ignoring her when I only reply with "yes I'm fine". Which was whatever- I pictured it as she was ...

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She Overheard My Conversation


Posted Friday March 5 2021, 10:02 am

Hi everyone. I'm pretty sure that my neighbor "Melissa" overheard me talking about her, and now I feel bad about it. Ever since I moved here she's been asking me to do favors for her at least twice a week. It would be anything from helping her carry boxes up the stairs to doing paperwork for her job. She's not elderly or anything so I don't know why she can't do it herself. The other thing is that she doesn't care what time it is or what I'm doing, if she asks me for help she expects me to come right now. And if I don't she'll keep calling me everyday until I do it, and she'll get angry if I say no. I finally got fed up and so I called one of my friends because I just needed to vent. I was so angry. I told her that Melissa's so an...

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Married but still think of my college ex fondly


Posted Tuesday March 2 2021, 3:06 pm

Is it possible that my ex thinks of me at all? We were friends for 6 months and then dated for another 8 months. While not the longest relationship...they were formative years. we were eachothers firsts and we were both mid-college. We are both married now with families but a few times a year she pops in my head and I can't get her out. We are facebook friends but outside of saying Happy Birthday, there is no contact. Do I just keep trying to forget?

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Clingy non-boyfriend won’t leave me alone


Posted Monday March 1 2021, 1:06 am

I’ve been talking to a guy for 8 months now. I haven’t met him in real life yet. At first, I was mutually interested in him up until I saw him interacting w/ other girls (through social media). I asked him about this, his response was “I only talk to them for a max 1 month”, followed by “you’re the only girl I’m serious about/want to spend my life with. And, "You’re the only girl who could break my heart, if you leave me I’ll be devastated”.

He drops the L bomb very frequently. Which didn’t make sense to me. He’s always texting me, & would often times ask me if I was talking to someone new if I had replied too late, to which I told him I wasn’t. His response would be “No.. it’s fine if ...

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Is "gaslighting" an actual thing?


Posted Sunday February 28 2021, 1:53 pm

I hear people throwing that word around a lot and I wanted to know if it's an actual thing or if it's just something that people say when they don't want to confront something?

My dad has Parkinson's disease.... he first developed symptoms about 12 years ago. My mom and I were getting worried about him because his memory was starting to disintegrate. He would frequently forget stuff we just told him and he even got fired from his job because he could no longer keep track of paperwork. We tried to get him to drive less frequently and seek a specialist. Every time we brought up the subject, he would tell us that we were "gaslighting" him. That we were trying to convince him that something was wrong with his brain so t...

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