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How to rebuild an old friendship?
Posted Monday July 5 2021, 11:35 am
Me and a friend of mine fell out over something a few months back- we both hurt the other’s feelings unintentionally and made some mistakes; we’ve apologised to each other and I know that we both really want to be friends again. I know that with time, we’ll be able to rebuild that friendship. She was the sweetest person ever; and we just had a personality clash leading to the breakdown of a friendship.
I’ve had friends in the past that I thought were friends but turned out to be anything but; who had malicious intent towards me; but I know this person never did, this person was a true friend of mine and I wish I could rebuild it. I’m just not sure how.
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How did his emotions change so fast???
Posted Monday July 5 2021, 12:35 am
So I have this friend, who I set up with my other friend. He and I aren't super close, but recently we've gotten closer because he's dating my close friend now. There's not really a problem, but I'm just super confused about how he's been acting. He and my other friend have been dating for about 4-5 weeks now? And he's already said I love you, and asked her to take that step too (he was very gentlemanly about it, didn't pressure her, that's not the problem). The problem is that just a week before she confessed to him, he told me that he was crushing on another girl from his church, and he seemed pretty smitten too, but he wasn't going to do anything about it and he claimed that he was fine just being friends with her. The next day, he told...
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Is this even abuse?
Posted Saturday July 3 2021, 1:15 pm
My mother has always been super controlling, and angers easily. She often insults me, either directly when she's angry about something, or passive aggressively in pretty much every conversation. She's called me lazy, worthless, stupid, psychotic, told me I should go to a (mental) hospital, and that I'd amount to nothing when I grow up. These were all on different occasions, but you get the idea. And in normal conversations, she'll often bring up how smart other kids are, imply that I should eat less and exercise more, and talk about how talented other kids my age are. Any time she compliments me, it's always followed by an insult, like how that top looks good for girls my age, but my arms are too fat. My waist is the only slim thing about m...
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Am I not allowed to get upset about this?
Posted Saturday July 3 2021, 12:57 pm
I've wanted to get my ears pierced since forever, but my mother hasn't let me until recently. Actually, she promised me that she would take me (because you need a parent or guardian to get them pierced) about 2 years ago, but since then, she's just kept pushing it back and not going through with her promise even though I kept reminding her and asking her. She always has some excuse. So finally, she made an appointment to get them pierced recently. Only, the day that I was supposed to go, she cancelled AGAIN, and moved it without even telling me. Her reasoning is that the new Delta variant of COVID is a lot worse, and I have only just gotten my first shot. The problem is, she was the one who wouldn't let me get the vaccine when it was first ...
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Autism and fireworks!
Posted Monday June 28 2021, 8:24 pm
So I found out that I was Autistic a few months ago and loud noises bother me especially fireworks and I was wanting to try to go to this year and I am already preparing for a lot of people and for the noise, but my main concern is the fact that the fireworks look like their falling on me . I know there not but it just seems like it . I just want to be able to enjoy it like everyone else and not be scared. I haven't been able to go since I was 12 and I am now 32. I want to be able to accomplish this and get over fear. My mom says why don't you just watch the neighbors do their fireworks that way you can back inside if it scares you because they do them every year ,but I hate missing the big Annual fireworks because of my fear. What does everyone else think?
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Guy I have been talking to has a girlfriend
Posted Saturday June 26 2021, 8:47 pm
I am 32 year old female and I have been talking to this guy I met online for about a week now so today his supposed girlfriend texts me from his phone and says this is Justin's girlfriend. I responded back and said I am sorry I didn't know he had a girlfriend and said it wouldn't happen again and I blocked the number. Did i do the right thing?
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loner needs "escort" for medical appointmt & knows no one.
Posted Saturday June 26 2021, 12:01 pm
Due to pain in my side, I am scheduled for a colonoscopy in a few days from now. Because this is a medical procedure where anesthesia is used, the hospital requires that I have an escort (PLATONIC. Don't get the wrong idea!) to make sure that I get home after it's all done. (S/He doesn't necessarily have to drive if I'm awake enough.) I do not know all the details but apparently it's a legal matter for the hospital...the escorting person may or may not have to sign a form. An Uber driver or cab driver does not qualify; this has to be someone I know. The problem is this: I don't know anyone in my area nearly well enough.
My basic character (& certain previous experiences) has led me to a mostly solitary life. I don't need ...
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How to deal with a potential attention-seeker?
Posted Thursday June 24 2021, 5:28 pm
I have this one friend who's life is pretty bad. She has a lot of trauma and mental issues, and abusive parents. When it comes to those issues, I'm very supportive and it never bothers me when she confides in me or anything, because I don't have the best relationship with my mother either, and I get it. However, she's also extremely insecure, and I know it's because of her anxiety, but she's just constantly texting about how she feels so ugly and how insecure she's about certain parts of herself. And of course, every time, our friends and I rush to assure her, telling her she's beautiful and she has nothing to worry about. She is a larger girl and I understand somewhat, because of course, I also have insecurities about myself. But my friend...
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Low blood pressure and low heart rate when i don't sleep enough
Posted Wednesday June 23 2021, 10:57 am
Hi and thanks for reading my post.I am 45 years old,healthy and fit.I sport regularly. My resting bp is usually around 112/72 and my resting heart rate about 60 (laying down in bed and relaxing,meditating).I noticed that if I don't sleep enough in the night,the next day my heart rate is about 50 and bp 100/62.So instead of having a higher bp due to lack of sleep,i am getting a lower one.Any advice,please?Many thanks in advance and stay healthy.
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Hugs
Posted Tuesday June 22 2021, 12:48 pm
So my boyfriend keeps getting picked up from school by his parents
He text me the other day saying that it was all his mum's fault
I asked why
He said that he was gonna do something
Without thinking I asked what
He said he was gonna kiss me
I don't know what to say!
Did he really mean it?
Was he saying that he was gonna do it but he actually wont?
I'M JUST REALLY FLUMMOXED (confused)😁
Pls can you help!!!
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How to create an OTT app for the entertainment business?
Posted Friday June 18 2021, 12:55 pm
Hi, We are one planning to start an OTT app for the web, mobile and smart tv with subscription based revenue model. Need solution provider and guidance to enter the market.
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My sister is going through something, but I don't know how to help.
Posted Wednesday June 16 2021, 9:05 pm
My little sister (11-14 yo) is going through something, and I have been trying to help as much as I can. Recently, she told me something about herself (that she has a type of mental illness; it's self-diagnosed) and I'm having a hard time believing it.
The reason for that is because throughout her whole life, she liked to pretend to be someone/something else (she would copy what she sees/reads/hears about), so when I realized that she only started showing signs of the mental illness after she had read something about it, I had started having doubts.
I have talked to her about it, and I am trying to be supportive and keep an open mind, but I honestly don't know what to do. This is way bigger than anything else, ...
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I need my parents to buy me things, but they want to save the money
Posted Monday June 14 2021, 1:09 pm
Recently, I overheard my parents talking about saving money for me and my brothers college tuitions, and about how we should stop spending money on unnecessary things like clothing, and entertainment (amusement parks, going to the swimming pool, etc.). During this summer break, I got to see all my friends go on expensive vacations, while I’m not going anywhere. Also, I’ve been asking my mom for a very long time if she can please buy me some new clothes for the summer, like shorts and tank tops. And I also need new strings for my violin, which can also be expensive. I don’t know what to do, so please help!
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The outside world just feels bad
Posted Sunday June 13 2021, 4:07 pm
20/M
I'm a pretty social person. In the sens I feel comfortable with people and with large groups.
However something frets me a bit. I don't like going out. Oftentime when I go out I'm just thinking how much I'd like to be home where I do everything I want to and daydream as much as I want.
And this is pretty confusing because this is not by spending your days home you live life right ? You end up getting stuck in a rut maybe ?
And I've been trying to force myself to stay a bit longer each time. But I generally end up feeling burned out even more. And just like I don't fit in and that it's just not for me. From the outside nobody sees that of course but this can be pretty draining.
Do you t...
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Friends say I shouldn't feel so guilty but I do
Posted Friday June 11 2021, 5:06 pm
17/F here. Earlier this year, I finally stood up to this girl who'd been bullying me ever since we were freshmen. We were at school, in the hallway on the second floor. She was mocking me when I finally lost it and did what I'd been dreaming of doing for awhile now. I hauled off and punched her in the face. She went reeling back towards the stairs, fell down them, and broke her arm in the fall to the landing below.
I was expelled and had to finish out the school year at a private school that was willing to take me in the middle of a semester. I was also arrested and charged with assault. My parents have hired me a lawyer and he's managed to work out a deal that'll have me serving a month in juvie.
Court is now ...
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Should his response about his dog be concerning for me?
Posted Wednesday June 9 2021, 11:57 am
28/f, 32/M
My boyfriend has a dog and like other dogs, she’s afraid of fireworks. She would have panic attacks and sit at your head for 30 minutes. Fireworks has been happening in his neighborhood everyday since I’ve met him and based on my past experiences with other dogs and have taken care of other dogs myself, I said “have you thought about those thunder vests? I’ve heard great things about them. You should give it a try.” And he’s said, “maybe.” When I stayed at his house for a month, even his mom said that when his dog freaks out about fireworks, putting pressure on her helps significantly. So I told him once again to look into it. And even after I left (it’s long distance relationship), I kept watchin...
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Fingered myself for the first time after THINKING my period was over nope
Posted Tuesday June 8 2021, 5:31 am
He'll ooo!!
My names Amy I'm 12 years old and I thought I had just ended my period yesterday so today I tried fingering myself and I went to the restroom to use the bathroom and wash my hand but while using the bathroom I started bleeding is that normal or was i still on my period? I need an answer!
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How to add displayable content to facebook
Posted Monday June 7 2021, 3:25 pm
How to add displayable content to facebook
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When people think that things come easy to you, is it jealousy?
Posted Saturday June 5 2021, 5:53 am
Someone told me: “Some things come to you easier than they come to others...and few will fully understand this without judgment/jealousy/envy.” What do they mean by this? Why would a person think that things come easily for me?
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I'm a good person with a big heart. All through my life I've been talked to
Posted Thursday June 3 2021, 6:22 pm
I'm a good person with a big heart, a free spirit and I'm beautiful but never thought so in the past.. I've had an inferiority complex most of my life. I'm very independent, a trend setter and never acted my age. All throughout my life I've been spoken to and/or treated mean and I'm a sensitive, cry at the drop of a pin girl. Why do people do that?
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