Member Since: November 3, 2005
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Last Update: November 3, 2005
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I basically just want to know what people think about this and whether I'm the one with the problem! Last night my male housemate asked me if i wanted to watch a film so i agreed even though it was about 11.30pm as i couldn't think of anything else to do. I started falling asleep in front of it and then waking up and not understanding what was going on so i decided to go to bed and i told him that. So he started saying how the evening had started off really well and now it had been spoilt and how i had agreed to watch it with him and i was breaking my promise. He kept sighing and just acting really unreasonably and going really quiet and pissed off. So i just went upstairs and told my other female housemate that i was not going to be made to feel guilty about not watching a film because its ridiculous. So he came upstairs and started yelling at me so i yelled back and it got totally out of control especially as all this is over a film!! So then he said that no one had ever upset him to this extent before and how he used to feel comfortable living in the house and now he won't anymore. Then i decided to go and talk to him because i dont like going to bed in the middle of an argument. He was just like don't worry i forgive you. So now its my fault!! WTF?? then he went and stayed at his friends house because he didnt want to sleep in the house cos of what happened. Does anyone else think this is strange? Or is it all my fault as he seems to think? I know maybe i shouldnt have yelled back but it really upset me! Thanks guys. (link)
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Sounds Like he fancies you and there is something stopping him from making a move such as a boyfriend or he know that you like someone else.
Have you known him long he is getting frustrated because he wants what he can't have.
I expect the point of the movie was to get close to you where you sitting next to him.He wantes to tell you how he feels but worrys what will happen to your friend ship.
him goin to his friends to you off his mind for a short time because when ever he is with you it reminds him that he can't have you.
I know from experience i cant think of anything more painful.
What ever you do don't let it spoil your friendship as i did and lost a friend for the last couple of years
try and talk to him and try to get him to admit it in his own time don't posh.
if you have got a boyfriend try not to rub it in the last thing he wants to here is how much fun you have with your boyfriend or here you with him.
try not to walk around undies or anything that might aggitate him more
And when you do talk to him dont get to close could make things worse such as your about to announce your love for him.
if you talk you can sort most things out he probs just wants to be loved
sorry about wittering on
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