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16/f
my bf of 4 & a half months and i have only been as far as handjobs/fingering [that was with each other and thats the most weve done at all ever in our lives]. weve talked about oral and the subject of blow jobs came up [although its unlikely to happen sometime soon] and i said something about him wearin a condom for it, and he was like "youre gonna make me wear one for that?? you cant even feel anything then". im not totally opposed to him bein without one but id pretty much prefer it. is it really that big of a deal and would he get like no pleasure out of that?
by the way do alot of girls give bjs and are they considered to be slutty if they do? because ive heard that its not that common and alot of girls refuse to do it but it seems like a whole hell of alot of them do.
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it's a very common thing but, i say if your going to be this way with your man you should leave it to yourselves and if you cant trust him to keep it quiet then you might not want to do it for him. we dont get the pleasure out of it only they do and what do we get out of it a sore mouth and a nasty taste in our mouths. lol
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What are some good gifts for Sweet 16's? I've never been to one and I'm 14/f bye the way. I don't have much money to splurge ongifts so low costs will be wished for.
I'm trying to buy a gift for my friend and she's turning 16. I don't know what to get her.
Any creative ideas? Details are awesome
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For a sweet 16 birthday party I would suggest money for your friend that way you wont buy a gift that she don't like or she will want to take back to the store right away and it will save you some embarrassment on the gift if she dont like it. i do this with my kids and stepkids it works the best on birtdays and christmas time for me. Give only as much as you can nothing more to put you in the whole.
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ok well where do i start. when i was 12 my dad was my gero andi loved him more than anything, then he told me that he had been an alcoholic for many years and all the nights i spent with him he was drunk. my worl came crashing down and i still dont know how to get over it. On last year on thanksgiving week he went to a rehab to get better, and he did. Now i am 13 and still love my ad very much buti t seems like all of a sudden he just doesnt care about how many months he has been sober and just recently i evesdropp on my parents convos (puh lesse who doesnt) andi heard parts were he would say "i dont want her to smell it on my breath." usualy i would talk to my mom about it but she has been lying about thiss sitchuation. i cant trust them. and now today i heard my dad downstairs and i thought he was drinking something so i told my mom and she started talking to him and of corse, i evesdropped again b/c i dont want to not know things that are going on with my dad b/c i love and care about him. well i heard her go "we cant keep lying, they know, our kids know this" I really dont know what to do rite now and please dont say talk to them about it b/c for some reason i cant, and i dont know why i usually tell them everything it is just this sbject that i cant say anything about. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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try this. Go up to your father and tell him that your not worried about how he was an alcoholic for all them years all your worried about now is getting to start over again with him and have a truthful relationship with him. then ask him if there is anything he wants to tell you and not to be ashamed of it. there is nothing to hide anymore.
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Well my newly ex-boyfriend now was dating for 11 months, and just broke up officially two days ago. We had broken up two times before this because we were arguing alot. This time we weren't really arguing, and he ended because he thinks I do too much for him, that we argue alot, and that he was to be single.... we he came to my house today to get his stuff, I was in the closet crying and in his clothes I packed the promise ring he gave me and the dogtag with our names and the day we hooked up..... my sister in law told me she asked him in the hallway what happened and he said he we were fighting too much and that he looked sad too, like he didn't want to do this.... I remember the last time he was breaking up with me, he was crying too... and this time i think he was too... so what should I do... give him time and space, or is he gone for good? I should I talk to him.... I miss him and we're eachothers first true love.... (link)
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I say you should call him and talk to him if he still ignores your call then give him a little bit of time and coming from someone that has been married and going on her second one dont ever go to bed mad at each other always tell each other what u truley feel toward them and then make up and then go to bed. you never know when life is going to be cut from on of you so make a wonderful life out of it and get on with your relationship and if they are little arguements then let them go dont argue about them its not worth it. if you think it is then your not with the right person. I have found the right person for me now after 8yrs.
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16, female.
im gonna warn you now it might be kinda long and im sooo sorry but i want you to get whats goin on..thank you so so much!!
okay so tonight. it was me my cousin and these two guys. my cousin liked one of the kids that was at her house (David) and i guess the other one thought i was cute and wanted to do stuff with me (tony). i thought tony was like a little brother to me so it was really awkard and he kept trying to hold my hand and i was like eeeeh..noo! and it was soooo bad. and then one of my cousins friend came. and this other kid too. his name is nick and this is the kid ive liked for awhile but he has a girlfriend named jessica =( soo they both saved me from the awkwardness thank god! and so when nick came i was on the computer and i was looking at something and he was saying hi to the guys that were there since he knows them too and then im like HI NICK! and hes like heyyy kristen wats up. :) and then i was talking to this girl on the computer and im like nobody can see go away! and nick is like noo i can and he like tried to get the mouse away from me and we were wispering about something (i forget) and got kinda close about it and then tony was sitting next to nick and he was like okay nick why dont you just go out with kristen and dump jessica. and i start laughing and im like uhhh what the heck! and then i was like what did you say? and then hes like nick you heard me right and hes like yea i heard ya and started laughing. and then tony was like if jessica was here would you be in the room making out with her and hes like nooo i would be out here making out with..kristen. duh i would makeout with jessica. and i was like ahhh noo! but then tonys like kristen i know you like nick and im like no i dont!! (nobody knows) and then im like we are just best friends =) and hes like noo you guys like each other and we're both like no we are just friends or whatever. so then my cousin and david went in her room and then so did tony and my cousins friend. so it was me and nick in their living room by ourselfs and he showed me this thing on the computer it was funny. but fun and i got to be with him. and hes like scoot over and he got closer and i was cold so i grabbed a huge blanket and wrapped it around me and he took some of it and covered him. and im like okay its my turn to look at something and he looks at me and smiles and is like not uh! and then we were really close like i would kinda be like..behind him close to his shoulder (its hard to explain). i mean i know he loves jessica and i just dont know because everyone thinks we like each other because of how we act. so i dont know if its too obvious that i like him or what? or if he is giving hints that he likes me i am soo confused! before he had a girlfriend we would flirt nonstop and it was physical haha. ok so then after nick left tonys like..soo who do you like? i know you like nick! and im like we're just friends. and hes like well he told me that you liked someone. and im like WHAT?? noo i dont. so i dont know if he said that to try and save me from tony or if he is saying that he can tell i like him i just dont know! then me and nick went driving to the gas station for a bit too until he had to go home =( i fall sooo hard everytime im with him, alot of people always think we're boyfriend girlfriend, but we're also good friends. and even though he is in love with his girlfriend (they've been going out for 5 months now..)what are these signals he is sending me if it is even that? he's been over to my house a couple times when i had to run in to get something and my parents think we are going out and they're like what you doing tonight and im like...hangin out with people and they're like who the boyfriend? and im like HES NOT MY BOYFRIEND. he has a girlfriend??!....and also when we were out to the gas station and i was getting gas i would look in the mirror and i could see him looking at me so i dont know if that means anything?! i dont want to tell him i like him because i dont know if he will feel the same and it will be WAYYY to awkward and it might ruin our friendship or make it weird..since he has a girlfriend and he will be like well umm i love jessica?..
ahh what do you think. i cant get him outta my mind. these are some quotes to help me explain how im thinking..
and even though we'll probably never be together, i refuse to let myself fall for anyone else..
how can you sit there and tell me about her and not even notice that im jealous?
you tell me about her and i smile and say "thats great" but you know me and by the look in my eyes you should be able to see that i want to be in her place..
and ive never felt more lost or confused i was so sure that i was the one to lose yet i still find myslef playing your game but i'll keep playing because without you i'll never be the same
I can`t stand being number two...
..when your my #1 (link)
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I think that you just need to come out and tell him your feelings for him if you only tell him your feeling it wont hurt the friendship at all. who knows maybe he feels the same way about you and is only going out with the jessica girl to take his mind off of your or try to take his mind off of you because he is affraid of how you really feel toward him. I use to be like that with my friends that wanted to date me in my opinion i value friendship more then dating a friend. If you truely think that something can come of you two then let it flow and tell him the truth maybe he is hiding it from you of how he truely feels only cause of how he thinks your going to react. Do this when no one else is around no friends or anything that way he dont feel pressured to say well i don't really like you in front of them hopefully he will be truthful with him and if he still doesnt come back with an answer you like you have to force yourself to get over him it may take a while but, there is always someone out there perfect for us that is willing to tell us how they really feel. Don't be afraid to speak your mind.
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