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My last period was November 8th - November 12th. I had unprotected sex/"pull out method" on 3 of my most fertile days. About 2 weeks ago I started feeling really nauseous and dizzy. A friend convinced me to take a pregnancy test & it came out negative. I still felt a little sick so I took another test a week ago and it came out negative again. Since then I've been bloated, I've been having to pee so much more (my liquid intake hasn't increased) I've been having slight cramps and headaches, I've been getting EASILY irritated, my nipples have been really sensitive, just a couple of days ago my boobs were so sore that I had to sleep on my back. A few days ago when I wiped there was only one spot of blood when I wiped & sorry for the tmi by lately I've been getting a lot more wetter to the point that my boyfriend even made a comment about it. My period was supposed to be due today and I usually get it in the mornings or the night before and I still haven't had any bleeding at all. My main question is is it possible that I just tested too early? When should I test again? Does anyone who was/is pregnant had any similar experiences? (link)
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I had pregnancy scares throughout my teens. It happened enough, despite using protection, that I actually did not believe I was pregnant when it finally did happen. Periods are weird. Some women get them like clockwork. Others don't. And then they can change on you for no reason. Your symptoms sound like they could be pregnancy or they could be your impending period. Give it a week or so, since you weren't expecting your period until today. The pregnancy hormone is hard to detect much earlier than that. If it comes out negative, but your period still doesn't come in the following weeks, go to a doctor.
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I am having alot of heartache n this alot on my matrenal family... What should I do? (link)
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See if he will consider couples therapy to get to a place where you might heal the marriage. It will also help you to understand why he wants the divorce. Try a trial separation. Do not give up your self, though, as you try to get your marriage back. Prepare yourself for the likelihood of divorce. Get your own therapist. Make sure to surround yourself with people you love and who make you feel good. If he goes through with this, you will want support. Feel free to send me a message.
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i want to kill my self and i need to know what kinds of pills to take and how many (link)
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I know how you feel. I am in that place often. You are not alone. What brought you to this place? It is something you need to deal with. The hotlines the other respondent provided are an excellent start, though I have found them to be only a short term help to get you off the edge of the cliff. You are probably tired of hearing "think of what it will do to your loved ones!" I know I am. Why go on suffering so they won't, right? At this point, you want out of YOUR pain, forget THEIRS. I get it. I'm not going to tell you that. You are beyond that now. I'm going to tell you some different things instead. After you have read this, reach out to a therapist. You may also need a psychiatrist. But that is all up to you.
In 2002, I took a lot of pills. I was in pain and wanted to sleep. I took a pain reliever/sleep aid, about 50+ tablets. I got very sick. I freaked out and called a hotline. Because I had already done harm, they sent out an ambulance. I got my stomach pumped. It wasn't fun.
Since then, I've learned a lot. I know more what can actually kill you. I also am aware of what it will feel like in the process.
Pills are probably among the worst choices. Everyone reacts differently to different types of pills. There are so many factors to consider. They take at least a few hours to kill you. You are sick and in terrible pain the entire time. It will make you wish you could go back to the pain you are feeling now. Also, even with a strong type of pill, it can take hundreds to kill you. You are likely to pass out before you can take enough. You will destroy your liver and possibly suffer brain damage. Your life will be worse than it is now. It isn't worth it. It is why I am alive right now. I love my family and the few friends I really have. I love my son. I love my rabbits. I convinced myself that they would all be fine, perhaps even better off, without me. But I had to consider myself. What if I failed? There are so many ways to go wrong. What if I don't take enough? What if I vomit most of it out? What if someone finds me before I'm gone? What kind of life would I live then? It certainly makes the hell I'm living now seem less terrible. I want you to think of those things. Be selfish about it. Do you really want to be brain damaged and on dialysis? Is that the life you want? If so, send me a message and I will send you to where I found the info I have. It goes into more detail about what you will experience and what others will find. If that doesn't keep you alive, then there is nothing anyone here can say to help you.
If you think you would rather try to make this life better instead of risking making it horribly worse, check out the resources here: http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention/index.shtml
Feel free to send me a message if you want to talk to someone who understands.
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DOREEN LEBEKO i want to fall pregnant so now i have pains under my stomach every time after i have sex with my husband and now im always tired even my nipples get painfull after i stop using those pills since from july this year so now can i have a baby or wht (link)
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That is a pretty typical set of side effects from going off hormones you've been taking for so long. You stopped about 6 months ago. You should be able to get pregnant. To be absolutely sure, talk to your doctor.
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How do I get over the anxiety of thinking always thinking I'm going to get pregnant after I have sex? I'm not on the pill but he wears a condom every time. I'm twenty and I know it sounds silly but there's always that chance. I just want to know how I can get over this and actually enjoy it all. (link)
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It sounds like you are not confident in just using condoms. That is a reasonable concern. Condoms are not 100% effective. Only abstinence and surgery (like a hysterectomy) are 100% effective. However, combining the pill with condoms provides more protection. I recommend you consider this option. It may ease your mind to know that you are doubly protected. If the pill does not appeal to you, there are other options. Perhaps talk to your doctor about what you can do. In the meantime, talk to your boyfriend about your concern. Have a serious talk about what you would want to do if you do get pregnant. Having a plan you both agree on will also ease your mind.
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